Nowadays, many young people have this common sense, that is, when they meet a girl they like, they will start pursuing with passion at the beginning. If the pursuit is long and the girl has no response, then You will start to lose confidence, even complain about God’s unfairness, and then the more you pursue, the more tired your heart will become. Finally, there will be a phenomenon that even if you meet someone you like, you will no longer actively pursue it, because In my subconscious mind, I feel that even if I actively pursue it, there is definitely no result. Since it is a fruitless thing, why waste time to suffer?
Actually, it’s not that you can’t pursue the girl you like, nor is it that the girl is arrogant and doesn’t care about you, but that you didn’t use the right method when pursuing it. You will feel more tired after chasing girls. Chasing girls is not to please her. Blindly kneeling and licking will only make you the first choice for spare tires. The true meaning of pursuing girls should be that girls have this kind of charm that attracts you. , And you just have the advantage of attracting her. Such pursuits will become effortless. Before pursuing girls, I think brothers should understand a little bit first, that is, understand what girls want. What is it, you can open the right way when you are pursuing, otherwise it is just to show yourself or make girls feel how good you are. These are totally untouchable to her. You need to give her what she wants at the right time. In order to let you easily catch up with the girl you like, the editor will share with you. The reason why you get tired the more you chase is actually because you have missed these three good opportunities. If you can grasp one, you can take off the order. .
1, a sense of ceremony
If you want to pursue a girl you like, just say "I love you, I love you" is not at all Use it, you have to know that the girl nowadays has passed the age of hearing love, and would say that it is better to do it. When pursuing her, you can give her more romance and surprise, which is the sense of ritual that girls often say , The sense of ritual is not the best thing, but it’s better than doing nothing. When you plan to openly pursue this girl, you should start to create romance for her, otherwise the girl will feel, I want to be a mother, but I don't want to pay. How can there be such a good thing? So don't be too tired, and don't be too troublesome. Girls like this set. Honest people don't know it.
2, in the snow
The girl who pursues the love gets tired, because you didn’t show your goodness to the fullest, and neither did girls I feel how good you are, that’s why I have never responded to you. If you want to get out of the order quickly, you have to learn to seize the opportunity. For example, when girls are most helpless and need help most, you should show up in time and give them to girls. Give charcoal in the snow, let her lift up so that you can not only give her a sincere heart, but also be her strongest backing. A small action can get the girl's favor, why not do it?
3. Long-term companionship
They all say that companionship is the most affectionate confession. If you want to easily and quickly pursue the girl you like, just You should spend more time on girls, don’t go fishing for three days and two days on the net. With your attitude, a girl will never miss you, let alone love you and be with you. In relationships, a girl is an extremely insecure person. Once she feels that you are not attentive enough, she is reluctant to spend time on her when you pursue her. You say you love her very much. Who believes it?
So it’s not that it’s not hard to chase girls now, and it’s not that you’ll get tired after a long time, but you will feel chasing girls if you don’t grasp the right time to pursue her. It's difficult. Chasing girls is better than attracting girls. Brothers who want to get out of the singles quickly should not forget to improve themselves and enlarge their charm while pursuing girls.
