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marrying a woman, really happy?
Teacher Tu Lei once said this sentence: "Women are away from their hometowns because of men. The chance of success in such a love is quite low." Parents have discussed this topic. Father and mother usually cannot agree on their opinions because of big and small things. They always quarrel with each other. Unexpectedly, they stood on the united front strangely this time, shaking their heads and saying, " You can't marry away."
The reason why parents don't let their daughters marry away is mostly because of these two reasons.
First, once a daughter is married, stumbling is indispensable in the marriage life, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become a recognized problem. Immediately rushed to preside over justice for her daughter.
Moreover, after some women married to their in-laws, even if they were wronged, they didn't dare to cry, so they endured it and did not tell their parents.
Secondly, the daughter is the intimate little padded jacket of the parents. In the eyes of the parents, even at the age of 30 and 40, she is still a child who has not grown up. As a parent, everyone hopes that their daughter can always be by their side. , Accompanying is the most affectionate confession.
However, the world is unpredictable. When a child grows up, he no longer needs the shoulders of his parents as a support, just like a chick. Once he knows the secret of flying, he can't wait to practice repeatedly and fly into the sky. There are countless cases of women going to their heads for love and insisting on marrying away.
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Liu Yin and her boyfriend ate the forbidden fruit and became pregnant soon afterwards. When she showed the medical examination report to her parents, her father who always spoiled her gave Liu Yin a big ear scraper. Three months ago, Liu Yin once returned with her boyfriend. At that time, his parents were not satisfied with the prospective son-in-law.
came because the man’s home was too far away from Liu Yin’s home, and his parents were reluctant to marry the only daughter away.Secondly, men are very naive, at the age of three, they don't have a serious job, and they don't have a skill that can be obtained. If you start a family with such a man, you will definitely have a lot of hardships in the future.
Therefore, his parents strongly opposed this marriage, and Liu Yin, in front of his parents, agreed to break up with each other. Who knows, she turned around and her boyfriend combined the drama of "getting pregnant first when she is unmarried", forcing her parents to compromise.
This is the end of the matter, Liu Yin's parents can only bow their heads, thinking about finalizing the wedding for their daughter as soon as possible. Unexpectedly, the whole process was not easy. After more than four months, the man promised to give a gift of 30,000 yuan. Seeing her daughter's belly become prominent day by day, Liu Yin's parents had tears in their eyes and sent their daughter to the wedding car.
There will be rehearsals before the wedding, and matters such as the getting off ceremony and the change fee have been agreed long ago, but Liu Yin did not expect that at the wedding, the mother-in-law deliberately embarrassed her and gave her a change fee of 30 yuan. .
Originally, the change fee was 3,000 yuan, but now in front of everyone, the mother-in-law took out three ten yuan, which is almost slap Liu Yin in the face of the prospective daughter-in-law.
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If your in-law’s family is in financial difficulties and can’t pay the 3,000 yuan change fee, you can give you 300, or 100. Now 30 yuan, if it’s wrapped in red, no one can see it. It's fine for Liu Yin to take it, but her mother-in-law insisted on spending thirty yuan in front of her relatives, and deliberately raised it up high, which was clearly intentional.
Liu Yin looked at the bridegroom on the side, he was smiling and not surprised at all. Liu Yin just realized that her husband had known all this a long time ago. Liu Yin couldn't understand the intention of the mother-in-law and husband doing this at the wedding. At this moment, the boyfriend said loudly: "My mom gave you the correction fee, don't you hurry up, haven't you seen the money?"
One The relatives burst into laughter again. Liu Yin remembered the advice of his parents. Once a woman became pregnant, her husband's family would look down on it, or use it as a threat, thinking that she had taken the woman's weakness. No matter what they did, the woman would eventually marry.
At the beginning, Liu Yin took her boyfriend home, and his parents didn’t wait to see him. The boyfriend gave Liu Yin an idea: "Let’s make a baby.When the time comes, your parents will take us out of the way. "At that time, Liu Yin was thinking about how to marry this man, but didn't realize that this was a calculation by the man's family.
When discussing the betrothal gift, the man's family was dragged on for more than four months. Now, Liu Yin's belly is prominent, and the man is proud of his face. This is certain that Liu Yin must marry. This kind of husband's family, Liu Yin will really have a good life after marrying in? Liu Yin hesitated about this.
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After a few minutes of silence, everyone beside him was still booing. Liu Yin was angry, in front of everyone, received thirty yuan, and threw it on her mother-in-law's face, then overturned the tea table, loudly Yelled: "I won't end this marriage! "_P1p
The man’s family didn’t expect Liu Yin to say something like this. For a while, he was at a loss. Seeing Liu Yin walking out, the bridegroom chased after two steps, and immediately shouted: "Your belly is so big. Can't take it away, now besides marrying you, do you have any other choice? "_P1p
For a while, everyone was waiting for Liu Yin's answer, or they were all watching the joke of the pregnant bride. Liu Yin was also asked, she didn't know what she should do next? She just wants to return to the embrace of her parents. The parents love her so much, and there is only a daughter like her who can always feed their mother and son!
In real life, a stupid and desperate girl like Liu Yin is desperate for love There are many children. In their eyes, love is above all else. However, the love they talk about is actually just a bunch of bubbles. Once they enter the marriage, they will burst in an instant.
Here, I I want to remind all women that even if you love a man again, don’t abandon your parents for him and choose to marry away. Moreover, it is quite unwise to get pregnant when you are unmarried. As an adult, you should have the ability to think independently. Don’t always be led by the nose by a man.
If a man really loves you, he will definitely not ruin your reputation and force your parents to agree to this marriage. A good man, he will try to use practical actions Come to get your parents' approval. Therefore, women, before marriage, be sure to keep your eyes open, keep in touch with each other, and listen to the opinions of friends and parents. Marriage is not a trifling matter. Please consider it again and again.
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