I don't know what you think online dating is. Some people say that online dating is a trap, but some people say that online dating is the beginning of the road to happiness. I wonder what your definition of online dating is?
Today, I got a private message from a girl backstage, this is about online dating.
Letter from girl:
I met him when we were playing games, At that time, I especially liked playing games. During the game, he asked me what my name was, and I told the other person my name directly, but when I asked his name, he used various reasons to prevaricate Me, he is always reluctant to tell me his real name.
Later, we added friends, because slowly I went online with him, I was originally a friend of the game, but after adding friends, he started to greet me actively every day, asking me what I am doing, have I eaten, I asked him directly what he wanted to do. I didn't expect him to tell me that he liked me.
At that time, what I heard this sentence was that I was stunned because I thought he was joking with me. After all, we had never met each other. How could he like a company? I didn't even meet someone, so I scolded him and deleted my friend.
Not long after I deleted him, I added it back again. He said he was willing to wait for me, no matter how long he was willing to wait. From that day on, I will receive his greetings every day. I was very straightforward at the time. He didn't bother me anymore, but he didn't listen to me, because I had a boyfriend at that time. When he heard the news of my breakup, he was so happy.
Since that day, he started chatting with me every day, because the school is about to start, so I don’t have time to play games, but he saw that I was offline for a long time, so he said he played for me. I don't know why I gave her the account.
Because we are both students, we are in the same class,Although I didn't study in the same place, I finally passed my own efforts and I was admitted to the university, but he has already gone out to work because I haven't used a mobile phone for a long time. After the college entrance examination, I got my mobile phone from my parents.
When I got the phone, I saw that my WeChat nickname and his WeChat nickname became the couple’s screen name, and the couple’s avatar was now. After a while, I started asking how it was, and he told me that it was with friends Playing around, but not long after, he actually started calling his wife.
may be due to the reason that I didn’t talk about the subject. I actually regarded him as my boyfriend, but I really want to hear his voice, because we talked on the phone for the first time. We are all a little shy, and slowly my chat with him turned into a phone call.
It’s been a long time, I wanted to meet him. The first time I met, he was a child from the countryside like me. I took the initiative to say that I want to meet several times, but he always finds excuses to stall Me, finally I got angry, and he finally compromised.
I saw him for the first time. When I saw him, he was very low, dark-skinned, and average-looking. I didn't judge people by appearance. The two of us chatted in full swing, and our relationship quickly heated up and slowly. Slowly over time, he started to want to kiss me.
But I was terrified. When I got home, I proposed to break up with him. It was winter. The winter in our north was very cold. I remember when he came to me to apologize, he took a gift and wore clothes. It was also very few, so I forgave him.
I don’t know why my heart was soft at the time. Maybe it was because he said a lot of love words. From then on, he and I started to hug each other, wait, I think he is my favorite People, but the good times did not last long, because he and I broke up.
The reason he broke up is that I want to get married earlier, but you don’t want to, you want to be later, you can wait, because you are a girl, and he can’t, because he is a boy, he can’t convince his parents Now, that’s it, he and I are completely over. We have known each other for nine years and have been lovers for seven years, so I hope that all girls will not go online dating, because online dating is a trap.
Analysis:
In fact, the reason for the relationship finally broke up is really male Is the child's fault? I don’t think so,Although he took the initiative, since ancient times, a slap has never been slapped, and emotions have been the same.
If you are not tempted by other people, then even if he is so proactive, it won’t help. In the end, you say that online dating is a trap. Indeed, online dating may be a trap. Why, because when you’re in online dating, what kind of person you are connected to. Don't know, you simply ignore the other person, what kind of personality is this kind of person.
So online dating is a trap. In fact, I don't think it is necessary for online dating. It is something in the virtual world, which is infinitely close to reality, but it is fantasy after all.
So we have to be down-to-earth when it comes to love, find the person who suits you best in real life, and don't waste time on online dating.
Summary:
You have known each other for nine years, and you have all met, And more than once, even if you have a relationship, then you are no longer in online dating, you are already in a real relationship, and at most you belong to a long-distance relationship.
There is one more point. I will calculate this girl: You have known each other for nine years, then you have to take the college entrance examination, then you should have met the boy at around nineteen. You need four years in high school or Three years, then you are twenty-two or twenty-three, and you have graduated, so now you should have known each other for about five years.
Then you should know this person. You have known each other for nine years. Then when he proposes to break up, you are already twenty-eight years old. Girl, a man who is twenty-eight years old is not married, and you still think you should Get married later, then I want to know what your ideal marriage age is.
Isn't it what it says on the Internet, wait until you are sixty years old before getting married, so will you last your entire life?
So boy, you need to know,If a girl does not want to marry you earlier, then you should not have much hope in her, let alone feel that you have had a relationship with her, you should be responsible, but you have to remember that life is even Those who are married and have children are divorced. So don't take her too seriously.
girl, you have to know, If you really love him, why don’t you go to marry him? You think it’s better later, but have you found that you can’t even get married sooner or later? Can you talk about your future marriage? So instead of being late, then you just let go and wait for the girl who is willing to marry you later, don't delay others, and don't waste your time.
So what do you think? If you understand this story, it’s your experience. If you don’t understand it, treat it as a story!
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