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01
For a middle-aged man who is not confused and has a successful career, he has more or less A bitter story.
His wife has accompanied him through the most difficult years. It is a memory burned in the bones. If it is to be erased forcibly, it is bound to have the pain of bone scraping.
So, you must not hold any hope for him, it is destined to be hopeless.
Before he decided to provoke you, he must have been familiar with Chen Shimei's story. Therefore, he would never want to bear such an infamy when he became famous.
The future he promised to you is nothing but a mirrored picture, very vain.
You may think that he is sincere to you, understands you and understands you, and thinks you have met a soul mate.
Actually, that is just your own illusion.
For a mature man, peeling off the chopsticks for you when eating, walking you to the right, habitually pulling a chair for you, these tricks are no more clever than making you drink more water.
Maybe his marriage is really experiencing misfortune, in a period of dryness that cannot go forward, but have you ever thought that it is his irresponsibility that caused this situation?
So don't be silly, leaving is the best choice.
02
A reader named Mai confided to me that he likes his boss and does not expect too much, as long as he can meet him often and have a little alone time.
At the beginning of the story, it seems to be like this.
So I asked her, who is the first to provoke whom.
She said that one day he was drunk and I happened to be working overtime, so she chatted with me about his marriage, and then he often talked to me.
Then Mai added another sentence, we are truly in love with each other, and he can give up everything he has now for me.
In the TV series "My First Half of Life", Ling Ling also said this to Chen Junsheng, and Chen Junsheng also thought that she had met the soul mate she had been waiting for in her life.
But in fact, they are all an excuse to conceal the emptiness inside. Where can the true feelings come from outside of home!
Maybe at a certain moment, he had such an impulse, but it was just passion. Passion usually broke out in an instant, but survived a night when the moon rose and set.
You haven't experienced anything together, let alone a difficult time like his wife, who didn't even have any kindness, so there is no confidence to talk about love!
are just self-deception.
So love that cannot stand the test of time is just an affair. No matter how beautiful it is, no matter how determined, it is just wishful thinking.
03
In the process of pursuing true love, the most embarrassing episode is that he has a wife.
But it’s okay. The person who doesn’t know is not guilty. Just leave in time. Don’t put in extra trust, let alone overwhelm your sympathy.
Because in the whole story, you will be the most injured one.
Don't expect a good ending. When he is with you, he can listen to you, because this is the only thing he can give you.
But once the truth emerges,He will leave himself clean, maybe as long as he admits a mistake, the day can start again.
You can't, you put your feelings in, and finally you find that he is just playing with you. Your belief in feelings will be completely destroyed. From then on, there will be a shadow when you look at everything.
The most important thing is that your good reputation will also be ruined. Don't think, it would be better to change to a strange place, because your conscience can't change your body.
After all, you did something wrong, greedy for a long time, and ruined the happiness of others.
These will slowly erode your heart over the years, making you unable to face every good person you meet.
So don’t be silly, let go!
While everything is still too late, make a good farewell, and never see you on both sides of the world.
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