My son was "forced" to be vaccinated against the study strain yesterday, and his father forced him to write 8 math papers. From 8 a.m. to 11 p.m., I spent the entire day writing math papers.
The reason why I wrote so much is because my father stipulated that I must achieve 95 points. If I get less than 95 points, I will continue to take the test. However, until the last test paper was finished, none of my son’s test papers exceeded 90 points [face covering]
From the beginning of the epidemic, the school canceled offline classes and started online teaching. After the outbreak, teachers gradually became ill, and online teaching was canceled and became independent learning. The final exam was also expected to be ruined. My husband asked his son to take a test paper in order to test his recent learning status. If the result was not satisfactory, he kept taking it. Unexpectedly, there were 8 test papers in one test.
I admire my son's perseverance very much. From the initial reluctance to the later acceptance, he quietly took every test paper and looked forward to every score.
Apart from eating and going to the toilet, I didn’t have any rest. I thought I was doing every test paper very seriously. But I think he was under tremendous pressure.
His son’s grades have never been very good, and his father is a father who only requires results. He seldom pays attention to his children’s homework, claiming that he wants to train his children’s independent learning ability.
For a boy in fifth grade, I don’t know if other children can take the initiative to learn, but I know that my son is not. I think he needs supervision and encouragement.
I have always used the method of praise and encouragement, while his father has always used persecution therapy. The lack of synchronization between the two of them is probably the main reason why he has not raised his son well!
When it comes to educating children, is it better to punish or encourage?
