Teach children literacy in advance? Primary school teacher:
Many parents have made mistakes, causing their children to be too tired of learning.
"We cannot let our children lose at the starting line!" I believe this is what most parents are most concerned about. When it comes to learning, many parents have this idea, but some parents are still struggling, whether to teach their children knowledge? So what knowledge should be taught to children?
In life, it is common for many children to start in kindergarten. Many parents think this is the most important stage of life. Moreover, it has a key impact on a child's life, and may even affect the child's future learning performance, especially in the important stage of transition from kindergarten to primary school.
We know that kindergarten and primary school are still different. When children are in kindergarten, teachers will give them more care in terms of life and learning. But when the children go to elementary school, things will be different. Most teachers in the primary school take learning as their main task. In terms of children's daily life, teachers will not take the initiative to ask or interfere unless the child has physical problems.
Then, in this important stage from kindergarten to elementary school, it is very necessary for parents to help their children make more adequate preparations in advance. If parents take the wrong approach during this period or are not prepared, it will directly affect their children's future primary school life.
Here I want to mention a child of my best friend’s family. When this child first started in the lower grades, his academic performance was indeed good, which made his parents very proud. But unexpectedly, when the child reached third grade, his academic performance dropped all the way. In the end, not only the child was depressed, but his best friend was also unhappy. My best friend couldn’t figure it out. Why was it that the first and second grades were ranked first, but in this critical third grade, it was like a new mind? Could it be that the knowledge in the third grade was too difficult?
My best friend couldn’t figure it out, so she asked her brother-in-law, who is a teacher, and he communicated with her like this. This brother-in-law has been teaching offline for more than ten years and has a strong voice. He has many talents all over the world. He is quite proud of his education career.
After communicating with my brother-in-law, my best friend also detailed the situation of the child in the past two years. When my brother-in-law heard this, he knew what the problem was. I also understand why my children’s grades have been declining like this. In fact, it is because children have already learned a lot of advanced knowledge before they go to school. But when the children go to elementary school and realize that they have learned all this knowledge by themselves, they become proud and do not work hard, and even despise learning. In other words, children's good study habits are directly destroyed by parents' misunderstanding - advanced education.
When children are in the first and second grades of the lower grades, the knowledge in these two grades is relatively simple, and the children can easily cope with it. But you must know that after the third grade of elementary school, the difficulty of knowledge also increases. If a child always thinks that he can cope with it easily, but refuses to work hard and continues to despise learning, then he does not have good study habits and is always lazy and not working hard. Once the child suffers setbacks, his performance will definitely drop significantly.
My best friend also listened to what my brother-in-law said, and began to regret that she always forced her children to study ahead of schedule. The brother-in-law comforted his girlfriend that in fact, at an appropriate age, it is still necessary for children to take the initiative to learn some knowledge. But parents must understand clearly what they want their children to learn and what they are not allowed to learn, and they must not let their children simply be used as learning machines.
For preschool children, what should parents cultivate? That is the child's basic ability to learn, and the establishment of good study habits, so that in the future the child will complete his studies seriously and independently, and will not feel very strenuous.
So, what is a child’s basic learning ability? This includes many aspects, such as children's logical thinking, children's concentration and memory, etc. These are very necessary for children's future learning. Children at this stage need to learn pinyin and literacy first.
Children learning Pinyin at the right time can directly stimulate children's desire to learn, and allowing children to face unknown knowledge can help children develop learning habits of seeking knowledge.
However, parents should note that helping their children learn Pinyin well is not an easy task, and parents must choose the right method. For example, when my son first learned Pinyin, his pronunciation was incorrect, so I bought a set of such books for him, which is "Talking Pinyin Reading". This set of books not only allows children to play easily, but also allows them to learn happily. Children will not find it boring. On the contrary, the child kept holding the book all day long and found it very interesting. In this process of playing and learning at the same time, my son easily mastered the basic spellings that must be learned.
This set of books is still very different from rote memorization of Pinyin cards. Because when children are studying, they don’t need their parents to accompany them at all. Parents can do what they need. Children only need to move their little hands and click on the books above to make sounds directly. Children will find it fun to try and read along slowly. Over time, children can easily master it, and the pronunciation of the books is very standard, so parents don't have to worry about non-standard spoken language.
The most important thing is that the knowledge in this set of books is also very comprehensive, covering all the pinyin that children need to learn. If parents want to solve their own problems with accompanying reading, then preparing such a set of books for their children will not only make it easier for them, but also make it easier for their children to learn. It is common for many parents to read with them until the very end, but this set of books can maintain family harmony. Methods such as playing, clicking, listening, and reading along will not put the child under pressure to study, but will make the child's attention more focused and improve the child's learning efficiency.
In addition to pinyin, this set of books also has many various illustrations, which can indirectly make children's memories deeper. There are also different new words and annotations, which will lay a solid foundation for children to form words and sentences. In addition, the book also adds different children's songs , so that children can easily be influenced by music while learning.
If you have children at home who don’t like to learn Pinyin, you can try to buy this set of books for your children to learn while playing. This can maintain family harmony and solve the problem of accompanied reading. Let children easily learn how to put together orders, and only need to spend a small amount of money to solve big problems. Why not!
