Day or live in school? When the child is in junior high school, every parent will face this problem. Let’s talk about the issue of children’s day or living on campus from the three stages of elementary school, junior high school and high school.
Day or live in primary school
About the question of whether primary school students live in school, everyone’s opinion is basically the same, that is, they do not live in school.
Because children are young, it is a period when parents need their company. With the company of their parents, children will feel safe, which is conducive to the healthy growth of their physical and mental health.
If the parents send their children to boarding school at this time, they are actually pushing the children out of their own side, which is contrary to the rules of children's growth.
Children do not have the company of their parents and lack the warmth of their families, so the basic conditions for growth are missing.
" Good Mom Better to Good Teacher " Yin Jianli once talked about her daughter's accommodation in an interview. She said that her daughter lived in junior high school when she was ten years old. At that time, she didn't know the issue of accommodation system. Although she hesitated whether to allow her children to stay, the external condition was that she would be better at accommodation, so she chose to let her children live. The child went home once a week and lived there for three years. This incident has always been a pain in her heart.
The high-quality and warm companionship of parents for their children is really important.
But if the parent's atmosphere is not good and the parents will put pressure and beat and scold the child as soon as he gets home, it is better to live in the school.
Some parents go out to work for their children and leave their children next to their grandparents. It is inconvenient for their grandparents to pick up and drop off their children every day, or they do not know how to provide homework, so parents choose to let their children go to boarding school .
Some parents send their children to better education and to better-conditioned schools. The school is far away from home and their children can live in school.
At a young age, there is no company of parents, and you have to face all kinds of difficulties and bear them alone. How can such a child grow up normally?
We have all seen or heard of things that children go to boarding primary school and cry and don’t want to go.
I have a friend who said she was busy with work and her son went to boarding school in elementary school. The child cried and refused to go to school every week when he went home. He said that he had nightmares at school. She felt very distressed when she heard it and knew that the child was afraid and insecure. Later, for the sake of the child, she changed jobs and took the child to a school close to home. She didn't pick up the child at noon and picked him up at night. So far, she firmly opposes the issue of letting children live in school.
She said that when the child is growing up, her nutrition cannot keep up with her, and when she encounters problems, she will not get timely help and guidance from her parents, which will have an impact on the child's physical and mental health.
Junior high school day or live in school
It is normal for primary schools to live in school, but after children go to junior high school, many schools have two situations: and live in school and live in school for parents to choose.
So, every family faces the problem of this choice. However, junior high school students are in adolescence, their three views are unstable, and they are easily affected by adverse effects.
For middle school students, the benefit of day study is that they are not easily affected by bad habits, they can have an independent and stable learning environment, and they can also be taken care of by their family. The benefits of living on campus is to exercise your own problem-solving ability and social skills.
But I think whether to live in a school depends on the objective conditions. is far away from home and parents are busy, so children can live in a school.
is close to home . It depends on the child’s subjective conditions. . If the child is not self-disciplined, has been at home in elementary school, the family learning atmosphere is not good, parents are not strict in management, and the child has not developed a good habit of studying for 6 years and likes to play with mobile phones. , then I think I can let the child live in the school decisively.
There is such an example around me. The neighbor boy has average grades in elementary school. The neighbor's elder sister always says that her child is very smart, just playful and likes to play with her mobile phone. She has to play with her mobile phone for a while after school. If she checks the mobile phone, the child will watch TV.
says the child, but the child doesn't listen.When the child was in junior high school, the eldest sister thought that the rebellious children in adolescence were even harder to manage, so she let the child live in school. The school management was strict. The child did not have a mobile phone at school, and he no longer wanted to play with his mobile phone. He devoted all his attention to his studies and had good grades.
Neighbor's elder sister said that the child does not play with his mobile phone or watch TV for a week at school. After finishing his homework on the weekend, she lets the child play for an hour, and the child is also very content.
If the child has developed good study habits in elementary school , just go to junior high school and study for a while when you go home at night. Some children are not used to eating at school and go home tonight and have another dinner.
High school day or on campus
I think it is a different matter to the high school stage. There is not much difference between day school and campus. I choose according to the actual situation of the family and children.
Because it is quite special to high school, like our county towns and surrounding towns come to school far away from home, and they all have to live on campus. The school also recommends that everyone live on campus, but some children choose to go to school in the daytime school when they are close to home. There are very few students studying day in a class.
And in high school, the children have passed the rebellious period of junior high school and have really grown up, and they all know what learning is for. Children at home usually don’t play with their mobile phones or read miscellaneous books secretly, and they know how to study. Children living on campus have good rest, have good energy during the day, and have high learning efficiency.
Some parents in big cities also rent a house near the school in order to let their children go to school. In high school, most parents can no longer help with their studies. What parents need to do is to ensure the logistics of their children. Children who are far away from home in a small county town are basically living in school, which is normal. When the child is older, he can take good care of himself at school.
However, if the child is under great pressure in his studies, cannot self-relieve emotions and is not very strong in his heart, is recommended to go to school, parents should do a good job in logistics, ensure the health of their children, talk with them, take good care of their children's mental health, etc.
Some people may say that children can go home and study for a while when they are on a day. They can learn as much as they want. After the school students studied at night, they turned off the lights and went to bed after washing up. However, we need to know that learning is more about efficiency, rather than who has learned for a long time.
Conclusion
Still living in school, there are generally many people who prefer to study in school. Therefore, in recent years, there have been many parents who accompany their children to study. Parents rent a house wherever their children go to school. , but whether their children can get into a good university is really not related to whether they are still living in school.
The situation around me is like this: elementary school is basically day school, and a few children who are close to home in junior high school are day school, while the rest live on campus.
There are more children around you who are going to school or are there many children living in school? Do you think day school or campus residence has a great impact on the college entrance examination?
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