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Recently, the 2023 postgraduate entrance examination registration is in progress online.
At the same time, this period is also a critical period for reviewing the postgraduate entrance examination, and everyone is sprinting.
However, some candidates have to give up the postgraduate entrance examination due to various changes, which is a pity.
For example, the candidate below.
"Baby, dad can't stand it anymore..."
Recently, I saw a post posted by a candidate who was preparing for the 2023 graduate exam, and tears flowed down. It was really uncomfortable.
Because we have similar experiences, we will also give me some suggestions here.
The candidate has had some changes at home recently. His grandparents have been sick all the time. Unfortunately, his mother has also been diagnosed with illness recently. In order to see a doctor, the family owed a lot of money.
The living expenses and all the expenses for the family of five can only be borne by my father alone.
Recently, he received a message from his father.
" Your mother 's leg hurts . It's been two or three months. Recently, it was found that femoral head necrosis . My baby, my dad can't stand it anymore ".
This candidate felt very distressed after receiving the message from his father, because he knew that it was really difficult for his father. With the current family conditions, he was no longer able to support him in continuing to study for graduate school.
After all, the living expenses of a family of five are a considerable expense, not to mention that grandparents and mothers have to see a doctor and have to pay off foreign debts.
A thousand pounds of burden is on my father alone. If I go to graduate school again, even if I apply for a student loan, work to earn living expenses, and don’t ask for money from my family, I feel sorry.
After all, I am about to graduate from college and am already an adult. I can find a job to earn money to help my father reduce the burden on my family.
So, this classmate finally decided to give up the postgraduate entrance examination first and find a job to earn money to subsidize the family income. Although
is a pity, it is also very helpless!
After reading this classmate's experience, I felt really distressed. At the same time, I also remembered myself. As a person who has experienced it, I also gave some advice to students with similar experiences.
, there are still opportunities, relatives, if you may miss it, you will really miss it...
To be honest, the candidate in the above article is very sensible and rational.
When I faced the same choice, I made the same decision as him.
The reason for choosing is very simple. Because of the postgraduate entrance examination, it is OK at any time. Even if we choose the job first, we still have the chance to take the postgraduate entrance examination in the future.
However, when we are closest, we need to accompany our loved ones and need money to see a doctor, we must do our best to help them, because if we miss it, we may really miss it, and we will leave regrets in our lives.
So, I also chose to work first.
worked for three years, and his salary increased from 3,000 yuan/month to 7,000 yuan per month. During his work, he not only helped his family reduce the financial burden, but also paid off the foreign debt he owed before. Everything is getting better, and after my family life is slowly getting on track, I still chose to quit my postgraduate entrance examination, because the postgraduate entrance examination has always been my dream.
Of course, resignation is a decision made after you have actually passed the postgraduate entrance examination.
So, the advice I gave to this classmate is that it doesn’t matter. You can choose a job first and earn money to help your father reduce the burden. It will be much easier for two people to bear it together.
I think everything will get better as long as I work hard.
After life is a little better, it is not too late to consider the postgraduate entrance examination.
You can consider resigning from the postgraduate entrance examination, or you can consider taking the exam for " part-time graduate student ". If you are satisfied with your job and feel that it is a pity to resign, you can consider taking the exam for "part-time graduate student".
Because, the value of "part-time graduate students" will only increase. After all, has long been included in the national unified examination and can also get a "double certificate" after graduation.
Therefore, the current "part-time graduate students" are very suitable for in-service students to apply for.
at the end
The most worth cherishing of our lives is the relatives around us.
So, when they encounter difficulties, when they need help, when they need company, we should help without hesitation.
As the old saying goes, " The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the son wants to be filial but the parents do not wait for ". Some relatives may really miss it if they miss it, and they can only leave regrets.
As for the postgraduate entrance examination, it is not a necessary option in our lives, and no one stipulates that we must take the postgraduate entrance examination. If we don’t take the postgraduate entrance examination, our lives may not be bad, and if we take the postgraduate entrance examination, we may not be able to live a better life than others.
So, when we face the same situation, if we can think clearly about this problem, we will not feel that not taking the postgraduate entrance examination will become a great regret in our lives.
Finally, I sincerely wish this classmate, hoping that everything will be fine, and hope that he will have the opportunity to continue taking the postgraduate entrance examination in the future and then successfully get ashore.
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