How far away is sexual assault from us? How deep do the rubbish foreign teachers hide?
Just today, when I was browsing Weibo , I saw a revelation and was so angry that I was shaking.
The story also happened in the International Department of Yali Middle School, one of the best schools in Changsha, and Guangdong Country Garden School.
The whistleblower @ Rebirth of I Am Aunt Baoshi (hereinafter referred to as "Rebirth") studied in the International Department of Yali Middle School in high school. She claimed that she was seduced, harassed and sexually assaulted by Travis Tate, a white American foreign teacher, for three years in high school.
Everything has to start with the deception in the name of "love" - when
was violated for the first time, he was only 15 or 6 years old..
Travis sent a message to Zhengsheng saying that he fell in love with her and took her to private theater .
After seeing this, we may all know that Travis is not here to watch a movie at all. A private theater is more hidden and better for him to "do things".
Travis got straight to the point and brought the topic to matters between men and women. Zhengsheng made it clear that he did not want to have sex, but the other party did not stop and began to name the next violation he was going to commit in the name of "love."
"Do you love me? I love you so much, but you are not willing to do that kind of thing? I am so disappointed in you."
Source: the movie "Carnival"
5, the rebirth of the 6-year-old, who still doesn't know what love is, but only knows that he doesn't want to lose the so-called love, so he half-heartedly agreed.
But after it ended, her world collapsed, because her subconscious mind was very clear that this was something she was unwilling to do .
had no way to accept the fact that he had been violated, so he could only convince himself over and over again, trying to rationalize his shame:
This person should not be a bad person, I should fall in love with him, so that I am not considered raped, right.
Although it is painful, only by forcing yourself to enjoy it can the pain be relieved.
You can rationalize all this, which is much harder than thinking about rebirth.
Every time when she breaks down and cries, the other party will give her sweet words -
"It doesn't matter, this is what people in love will do. I love you and you love me too. This kind of thing is normal and correct."
"I only love you, and I will marry you in the future."
After that, Travis did not stop at it, but intensified it.
In his sophomore year of high school, Travis dragged Shengsheng to an abandoned barber shop in the mall. He covered Shengsheng's mouth and raped him directly..
's repeated humiliating violations caused Zheng Zheng to have serious emotional problems in high school, and he would often break down and cry inexplicably.
Whenever others notice something strange, she wants to blurt it out.
But she felt it was too shameful and too hard to talk about. "Because I had to bear this shame alone, I could only isolate my teachers, classmates, friends, and parents."
It was precisely because he believed that girls who were violated would not speak out that Travis began to exploit women's shame even more unscrupulously.
Yes, Zheng Zheng was not the only female student he sexually assaulted. , he even harassed Zheng Zheng and many other girls at the same time.
According to other girls’ revelations, Travis would touch the thighs of female classmates in the office, send them sexually suggestive WeChat messages, and take female classmates home for the night...
If the other party was unwilling to have a relationship, Travis would discard the other party like an old thing, use words to insult the other party, and even PUA to the female students who had been deceived.
"You are too fat! You are too ugly! You are lucky to be with me!" "You jealous bitch! (jealous bitch)"
A female classmate has suffered from a severe eating disorder because of Travis, and has become as thin as only 45kg.
After the rebirth gradually awakened, he wanted to contact other victims, but was instigated by Travis.
Rebirth At that time, I no longer had a strong enough mental state to stand up and defend myself. She later learned that there was another girl who bravely stood up and told him to get out of Yali.
Seeing that Travis couldn't hide his affairs, said that he wanted to return to the United States, but in fact he soon went to work at Guangdong Country Garden School..
This seems to have been confirmed by the students of Country Garden .
But do you know what is the most frightening thing?
According to Rebirth, until now in 2022, there are still victims who have been violated by Travis, and they are all only 14 or 15 years old..
Travis has never stopped "hunting" and specifically targets young girls.
Fortunately, according to netizens, this revelation has spread throughout the campus, Travis has also been suspended and is under investigation.
If the revelations are true, then people with some conscience will express comfort for the rebirth, but there are also some different voices in the comment area -
"Why didn't you call the police earlier? Why did you go there earlier?"
"National women like white men"
"Women have the ability to consent sexually when they are over 14 years old, so don't be pretentious. This is not seduction at all."
Some people even say that Reborn obviously also likes Travis. In the final analysis, it is because "I don't love myself".
I won’t go into those typical theories of victim guilt, or even the notion that Chinese women are easy girls.
I just want to ask, what exactly is lack of self-love?
In the ignorant adolescence, does misunderstanding one's own feelings under PUA mean that one does not love oneself?
I think that even if you have natural and healthy feelings for the opposite sex during adolescence, it is not considered a lack of self-love.
Moreover, we all have the experience of developing a good impression of our teachers more or less, because for us as students, teachers know everything.
Picture source: the movie "Carnival"
A netizen also had an affair with his teacher, but the two were limited to literary discussions, and the other party would simply refuse to take the relationship to the next step, because he knew this was wrong..
This is what a moral teacher would do. What is wrong are those who use their powerful positions to violate students.
No matter what, I want to say, is reborn, the female classmate who threatened Travis to leave Yali, and everyone who shared on the Internet that they were violated by Travis, you are really brave!
opened his wounds and exposed them naked in front of everyone, just to protect the next potential victim.
Those who ridicule your bravery will never have the same courage, let alone understand the value of your courage.
What is the current truth of the matter? We still need to wait for further investigation.
But it is undeniable that this kind of thing is not uncommon. In the comment area of the rebirth Weibo post, Mr. Huasheng even saw several classmates saying that their previous foreign teachers also had strange behaviors.
Pakistani male foreign teacher entered the women's restroom many times and used the toilet on the pretext that he recognized the wrong restroom.
Some people saw male foreign teachers often taking girls back to their dormitories .
Some people also encountered foreign teachers who would take the opportunity to touch students' hands, and would try to pull out the other's hand when they met a girl who had her hand in her pocket.
"The foreign garbage exposed on the Internet is just the tip of the iceberg"
Perhaps the garbage foreign teachers exposed are really just the tip of the iceberg. After all, not long ago, a language training institution was exposed for having a foreign teacher sexually extorting a 12-year-old Chinese girl .
Baldwin worked as an English teacher at EF Education First in China and resigned on November 20, 2019.
Then, after Baldwin left China and returned to the United States, used WeChat to contact a 12-year-old Chinese girl whom he had taught.
In order to satisfy his despicable selfish desires, Baldwin sexually blackmailed the girl.
On WeChat, Baldwin threatened the girl, saying that he had indecent videos of her previously sexually explicit sex, and that if she did not continue to send him new nude photos and videos, he would publish the existing videos on the Internet .
Fortunately, the girl's father saw the threatening conversation and contacted EF English , which then contacted the FBI.
During the subsequent FBI search, a horrifying scene was discovered -
A lot of child pornography content was stored in one of Baldwin's Apple computers, and many of the child pornographic videos involved Chinese young girls .
Some "foreign teachers" are wolves in nature, but after coming to China, they put on the cloak of "sheep".
In recent years, scandals involving foreign teachers have frequently appeared in Chinese media reports. For example:
In July 2019, there was an incident "Several foreign teachers were arrested for taking drugs" incident at EF Education First Xuzhou Center;
In 2018, an American foreign teacher who once worked at a university in Shanghai was found to be one of the 15 most wanted homicide suspects in the United States, charged with "sexual assault and murder" ;
In 2013, an American teacher who taught at an international school in Shanghai was arrested on suspicion of sexually abusing at least 7 children. ;
In 2013, the media broke the news that an American foreign teacher in Nanjing was arrested. There is a record of child sexual abuse , but he has been teaching in China for 5 years. He has worked as a foreign teacher in an English training institution and a university in Nanjing...
Parents send their children to international schools or language training institutions to receive teaching from foreign teachers in order to improve their English level and knowledge, not to ruin their children's future.
Those sexual assaulters, murderers, and drug addicts have suddenly become popular foreign teachers in China. How can parents trust them with peace of mind? How can students study safely?
When I was reading the comments today, I saw some netizens saying in despair:
"Why is there always someone named Fang Siqi?"
However, "Li Guohua is everywhere, how can Fang Siqi escape?"
I know that even if I say some great truths, I can't wake up those "Li Guohua" hiding in the dark.
Then can we tell the minors around us, or our own daughters in the future, that this is not love .
Can we give them more adequate sex education so that they will not become "Fang Siqi"?
Or, can we stop asking them: "Why you? Why didn't you resist? Why did you just say it?"
Those girls would not have been casually abandoned and abandoned after swallowing the desires of adults, and they would not have mistook the ill intentions of pedophiles for love..
Let us not lose hope and let us not stop resisting.
ref: @ rebirth of I am the aunt
