Let the flowers bloom, let the trees bear fruit, and let the trash stay in the trash can. Let go of the helping complex and respect the fate of others.
This is a message from a teacher to another teacher. is from a teacher's mouth, and it is inevitable that I feel a little ruthless . Every student is a flower, but some bloom late.
couldn't help but start to wonder what kind of life it is. let the teacher who is a role model say such seemingly irresponsible words? How bad can middle school students be? The teacher admitted: "Don't teach junior high schools, especially the very poor junior high schools." A teacher's complaints about students became unexpectedly popular. A teacher asked when did you start to be disappointed with those students. teacher said that maybe after he paid for the clothes he had danced at the opening ceremony of the sports meeting, the student said, "Don't worry, the teacher has money, I will forget it when the time comes." During the 
Sports meeting, I wanted students to sign up for the competition, and was also threatened by milk tea, otherwise I would not sign up for any name. It seems that registration for the sports meeting was to satisfy the teacher's vanity.
also heard students say that the teacher does nothing for a day . The teacher was very sad about his blindness to his work and malicious slander.
Morning Self-Study When dealing with students who violated discipline, the student jumped up from his position and pointed at me and said: I have been tolerant of you for a long time and I have long wanted you to care. Then he cursed at the teacher.
There were students in class because they couldn't write it out. was not convinced when collecting the notebook and tear it off and kneaded it into a ball, throw it on the ground to demonstrate to the teacher.
There are also students who are dissatisfied with education after violating discipline and said to the teacher, "Damn, you're so cheap." and the high school entrance examination results were just released, a parent in the class said in the group, "My son has been studying for nine years, but he was finally defeated by you, a little kid." After
, the teacher thought about the situation of the students to the parents before, parents did not cooperate or communicate. The messages sent by at that time were all sank.
Just like this, Even if you know your mission as a teacher, you will still feel very disappointed .
This leads to the beginning of the teacher’s words: is not so irresponsible, but rather to persuade yourself to open up and not think about things that you cannot change.
A teacher persuaded me to be a teacher in the future, should not be a junior high school teacher, especially those who are poor schools, , and some students really can't save them.
The junior high school entrance examination can filter out many unsatisfactory students
The teacher said that after high school, you will find that high school students are generally well-behaved and sensible than junior high school students. Age growth is part, and the quality of students is another part.
high school entrance examination filters out a lot of troubles and does not study hard. Before the high school entrance examination, these students were in the same school, and they didn’t listen and didn’t dare to beat them.
, and these students generally have poor grades. After the high school entrance examination, they will enter society directly or go to vocational high school. Therefore, the quality of high school students is relatively much better. No matter what kind of character you are. But being well-behaved is a bonus. It is precisely this gap that makes the teacher say that if you can not teach , you won’t teach junior high school, especially those with relatively poor junior high schools, the students in it really can’t be convinced.
Many teachers started with the idea of a savior and made friends with students . Let all students who don’t like to study get on the right track.
is actually not that simple, and there are indeed scenes where poor students counterattack in . But more exist in TV series. Most teachers do not have the patience, and not every student can learn to grow in adversity.
Author's message:
For the teacher, it is not worthy of sympathy for students, Good students teach well, and if they don't want to study hard, let them accept fate, theoretically speaking, it is wrong, , but there are indeed teachers doing this.
The teacher has limited energy and really cannot take into account the emotions and future of each student . Especially those stupid children who feel that they are not studying hard and are taking revenge on the teacher, but the teacher will not be affected by this.
, and the teacher who complained at the beginning also said that this is a small part of the school. is an individual situation, and many children are very good.
When checking the dormitory at night, you will say that the teacher is dark, so be careful and walk slowly . When the teacher is not having breakfast, he will put hot milk and eggs on his desk.
People are different, but students are also different. Those students who are not in line with the rules do exist, but should not be given up.
The parents' disregard for them has created a despicable and annoying personality for students. If the teacher gives up again, then no one will save him.
does not have education and ability support. It was okay when I was young, I could still struggle, but the pressure was not great . But after the age of 35, the arrival of the midlife crisis will make people unexpectedly discover that there are basically no options.
Treating people is also a direction that teachers need to cultivate. Humility and courteousness can help everyone get better appreciate and treat in their future development. I hope every student can understand it.
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