In the process of students' growth, parents must pay close attention to it and create a good educational environment for students.
In fact, after students go to school, most of their time is spent in school. The classmates usually get along with students the most, so parents often remind their children to get along well with their classmates.
Family education has a profound and long-lasting impact on students. Parents' thoughts are subtly affecting students.
Students in primary and secondary school stages have strong learning ability. In learning, teachers are students' tutors, and parents play a greater role in life.
Parents are the best teachers for their children. Parents' every word and action affects their children. In daily life, students will also observe their parents' attitudes in dealing with problems and follow the examples.
Children are all treasures in the palm of their parents. I believe that every parent cannot accept their children’s grievances.
. Parents also hope that their children can become a generous person . Some parents choose to make students more generous when their children are wronged at school. Parents think that students can also get exercise from it, but is this really helping students?
"Students say bad things to me in person", the girl cried to her mother, her mother's treatment method caused dissatisfaction with the
class is a big group for the students, and when it comes to the break, the students actually have their own small group. They usually have a good time and go together wherever they go. is inseparable.
Some students who are introverted or are usually honest are also easily bullied.
Recently, a parent uploaded a video, and his daughter started crying when she got home after school. It turned out that she was wronged at school. According to students, it was difficult for girls in the class to get along with. not only talked about her behind her back and said bad things about her, but also talked about her in front of her.
The child was wronged and the first thing he thought of was his mother. After the girl cried to her mother, the mother said that she could only tell her what others said and let her say it, and she didn't need to pay attention.
In fact, when faced with their own children being bullied, every parent has a different attitude.
Some parents with bad tempers may take their children directly to the other party’s home to argue; some parents choose to tell the teacher to ask the teacher to give the parents a satisfactory answer.
Parents can't let their children suffer grievances, but this mother's approach has aroused the dissatisfaction of netizens.
Campus bullying is no small matter. Teachers and parents should pay attention to it.
Campus bullying refers to campus bullying . is an attacking behavior with students as the main participant. includes both direct bullying and indirect bullying.
This girl was excluded by her classmates at school. Although she was not physically hurt, she was traumatized in her heart, which is also a behavior of bullying on campus.
As long as it is related to campus bullying, there is nothing small, and it should be valued by teachers and parents.
Netizens do not agree with the way this mother handles.
"She is asking for help from you, the perpetrator is looking at your reaction, the teacher is waiting for your attitude";
"She is asking for help from you, you are teaching her to be cowardly."
When students encounter setbacks, they will think of seeking help from their parents. They will not say it directly, but they will still let their parents know through their own ways.
If parents do not pay attention, may directly affect the growth of students. Therefore, parents should not take the students' words seriously, think that they have just suffered a little grievance, and endure it will pass. This will only encourage the perpetrator's arrogance.
helps students stay away from school bullying. Parents teach them "those 4 points" are enough.
lets students recognize campus bullying
In school, some students do not know that they have been bullied. As mentioned earlier, campus bullying is divided into direct bullying and indirect bullying . Sometimes indirect bullying will make students feel illusioned.
So the first thing parents need to do is to let students recognize campus bullying and let students know whether they have been bullied at the first time.
teaches students to say "no" to campus bullying
Students should not be afraid when facing bullying, and fight bravely. learns to say "no" . The bully is the same age as the bully and looks very powerful. is actually paper tiger , so students don't need to feel scared at all.
As long as you defeat the other party in momentum and let the other party know that you are not easy to mess with, you will not cause trouble in the future.
Let students communicate with themselves in time
After students are bullied, don’t sit still and wait for death. If you can’t solve the problem, you must communicate with parents and teachers in time and explain the reasons. In this way, teachers and parents can better help you get rid of campus bullying.
students must not be embarrassed. This is not a matter of face or not, so you must boldly speak out and completely defeat the bully.
Handle school interpersonal relationships well
School interpersonal relationships are also a very important part. If has a good popularity in school, then others will not dare to bully you at all. Therefore, students make more friends in daily life, so their personality will become more cheerful.
If students can do the above 4 points, they will definitely stay away from school bullying, and parents don’t have to worry about their children being bullied at school all day long.
Topic Discussion: How will you treat campus bullying?
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