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Hello, I am Xiaofei~~
When Xiaofei went to colleges and universities for business wars on National Day, he was fortunate to go to the library. Most of the interviews were seniors who were preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination in junior high school and seniors who were preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination in junior high school and seniors, and even seniors who were already staying in the postgraduate entrance examination in junior high school and junior high school.
During the interview and sharing process, the seniors actively cooperated and accepted our interview. At the same time, the experience they shared also taught Xiaofei a lot of truth.
This time I went to college and university with a good experience. Not only did I exercise my abilities, I practiced my expression and communication skills, but I also learned knowledge while expressing them, and also shared some practical university experience.
Below are the points that Xiaofei has mentioned most. Xiaofei knows that many of us are juniors who have just entered college, and we also share them with you
1. You must make plans as soon as possible in college
Many seniors who are facing graduation and looking for a job said: I remember that when I was a freshman, I just came in and understood nothing, so I spent every day in a daze, and I had no plans or goals every day, except for class, I just stayed in the dormitory to play games.
social scope is basically in the dormitory. Now I have only realized it when I am in my junior year and senior year. If this continues, I have to make changes, so I embarked on the road to the postgraduate entrance examination.
And some seniors and seniors also have very simple reasons for taking the postgraduate entrance examination. They don’t want to enter the society to find a job, they are not ready yet, they don’t know what job they can do, and they don’t know what to do.
and many people around me are taking the postgraduate entrance examination, so they also choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and they are not clear enough about the future.
From here I deeply realized that university planning is so important. A life without planning is like a pile of sand. When you come back to your senses, it may be too late, or you have wasted a lot of time in college.
Unplanned universities are easily confused, so in colleges, you must make plans as soon as possible, establish your own direction, and what aspects of your ability you need to improve.
2. Interpersonal relationships must be handled well. Communication and expression of emotional intelligence are very important.
University is equivalent to a small society. Some interpersonal relationships are still very complicated. If they are not handled well, they may become a big stumbling block on your growth path and will hinder our growth.
University is an adaptation period for us to enter society. When we cultivate our communication, expression, emotional intelligence and other abilities in college, we will not make some mistakes that novices make when entering society.
3. In college, you should cultivate your interests and hobbies and improve your abilities in all aspects
Entering college, you will find that the most popular ones are not necessarily those with the best grades, but perhaps the most popular ones are those with cheerful and confident personality, and their talents are particularly outstanding in a certain aspect.
or those who are good at a certain talent and can stand on the stage and talk freely. These people are more popular in school or class.
And those who have "serious consequences of the college entrance examination" may become very anxious when they go to college. Although they have been working hard, they have not achieved results, because the university is really not high school, so naturally they cannot go to college according to the high school way and the thinking of high school.
The book "Q&A Confused in College" also says that hard work alone is not enough, you must also be able to work hard. It made me realize that thinking in college is also very important, and the direction of hard work is incorrect, and no matter how hard I work, it will be in vain.
What is wrong with yourself and what is not done well? You should focus on improving your abilities in this area, rather than being aimlessly busy.
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self-introduction: Xiaofei, a post-00s girl who loves learning, reviewing and tossing. Through learning, we have broken through the introverted and inferior personality, got rid of confusion and decadence, became more self-disciplined, and entered a better circle.
