Introduction
Time flies so fast, and the happy summer vacation of these students is over in a blink of an eye. They may be very happy about the start of school, but they may also be very sad. Especially these primary school students, they are like a hill. The accumulated homework makes them dream about having another summer vacation.
For freshmen , they have a lot of expectations for the start of school. After the college entrance examination, these students spent about three months of summer vacation. Finally ushered in the start of school. Naturally, they have long thought about it. Change to another way of life.
1. When freshmen first enter school, they are exposed to the " inferiority complex " of many people. The reason is realistic and helpless!
Different growth environments lead to completely different educated children, especially in terms of values . Some students do not take pleasure in things or feel sad about themselves. However, some students take material conditions very seriously. The reason is that they lacked a favorable family environment since childhood.
Mr. Wu studied very hard, and finally got into a good university with his own efforts during the college entrance examination. Like all freshmen, he contacted the school through many ways during the summer vacation early The freshmen group, and the fellow students group in the school.
Fortunately, classmate Wu met , a senior fellow student from his hometown. This senior brother said that after school starts, he must hide his inferiority deep in his heart, because people from a small place like ours will definitely be better when they come to this school. It will feel dwarfed by comparison. It turns out that this senior brother, like Mr. Wu, also grew up in a rural area. Fortunately, this small county has a training system from primary school to high school, so that even if they come from rural areas, they can receive education at their doorstep.
After he was admitted to college, this senior brother's eyes were opened. It turned out that big cities were really completely different from small counties. Even in his mind, the life and materials in the county were already extremely rich. Later, he compared it with other students. Later, this senior brother also discovered something different, that is, the conditions of his family were really poor.
As one of the few students in his village who was admitted to a good university, Wu’s senior brother was very confident. But when he arrived at the university campus, he saw that these children who were born in well-off families were equally good and confident, and he felt in his heart It's a particularly unpleasant taste. Especially in terms of material things, this brother's self-confidence was shattered. Although he knew that when he became an adult, he should not continue to let his parents bear the corresponding financial pressure. However, he saw that he had twice as much living expenses as himself. The roommates, this student, are still very envious.
2. The beginning of university is a shura field of inferiority and self-confidence. I hope students will treat it rationally
Even if a university is relatively small, there will still be all kinds of students and parents from all over the world, especially every year When school starts before the summer vacation, we can see parents and students dressed simply, and we can also see the reporting team who are very well-dressed and exuding nobility.
Although these students cannot decide their own family situation, it is understandable that they will be affected by material advantages and disadvantages. Especially these students from ordinary families, they can easily feel inferior.Just imagine, if a student goes to a big city for the first time, other students are all wearing glamorous clothes, covered with famous brands, she is the only one who is dressed very plainly, and does not exude confidence from all over her body, and naturally has low self-esteem. Will be defeated.
Although there is an old saying that adversity brings out talents, , but in today's society, only students who stand on the shoulders of their parents can succeed faster. But does not mean that can become a talent only by standing on the shoulders of giants. Therefore, students must believe in themselves. It is possible for them to succeed in the future without relying on their parents.
Facing the family environment brought by parents calmly is a compulsory course that all students must experience. If they are born in a good family, students are undoubtedly lucky , but if it is the other way around, then students will also You should not feel inferior , but should work hard and improve yourself.
Especially children from rural areas, who have gone through all kinds of hardships and finally got into a good school in a big city, must be proud of themselves, because their starting point is lower than others, but they have created more achievements, think about it from another perspective, such students are the outstanding ones among their peers.
The author has something to say: A college of higher education brings together many outstanding talents, and naturally it is easy to recruit students with low quality, because colleges and universities recruit students based on scores, and there is no such thing as The method is to screen through moral character, so if students want to achieve different development in the educational environment of colleges and universities, they must adjust their mentality and have correct values 4 so that they will not be adversely affected.
also hopes that when colleges and universities arrange dormitories for freshmen, they can examine more factors instead of dividing them by class. Only by giving these students more room for growth and tolerance can we cultivate more outstanding talents for our country. For example, generous scholarships can be given to students whose families are truly poor.
