The worst thing you can encounter when you interact with people is your own lack of a base line.
The worst thing you can encounter when you interact with people is your own lack of a base line.
No matter who you are interacting with, be it your family, your friend or strangers, you should know:
No matter you are interacting with relatives, friends or strangers, you should understand:
1. no right to pass unless you authorize them to.
You have your own power boundaries, which cannot be violated by others.
2. What you do is your own business. And you are the one who decides how to do them.
Your business is your business, and the final decision about them rests with you.
3. What others do is their own business. If you don't want to help, you have the right not to.
What others do is their own business. If you don't want to help, you have the right not to.
There is no need in maintaining all those pointless relationships and making yourself miserable.
There is no need in maintaining all those pointless relationships and making yourself miserable.
You don't need to please everyone.
You don't need to please everyone.
Your energy is limited.
A person's energy is limited.
And it's impossible to get along with everyone.
It's impossible for one person to get along with everyone.
This is life. It may not be the life that we imagine our lives should be like. But it's the true life that we have to live.
This is life. It may not be the life that most people imagine our lives should be like. , it is that "real life".
