With the widespread use of chat software, parent groups have become an indispensable communication platform between teachers and parents. Through parent groups, teachers will report students' performance in school, issue important announcements, etc. Parents can also communicate with teachers through the parent group if they have questions, but the communication is too convenient, which adds a lot of trouble to many teachers and parents.
Starting from the time when students enter kindergarten, in order to facilitate teachers and parents to communicate with each other and share parenting resources, teachers will create class groups and also establish group rules, requiring that each student can have one or two parents join the group. Usually, in order to show that parents attach great importance to students' education, both parents will enter the parent group
. From then on, the parent group has become a pinned group chat in the parent chat software, for fear of missing important news released by the teacher, which will affect the students' relationship with the teacher. mental impression. But many times, can cause embarrassing situations in parents' groups due to carelessness, and parents can't wait to quit the group chat.
My father mistakenly sent a message to the parent group, and a large-scale "social death" scene occurred.
The parent group is a very serious communication platform, and it is all about messages released by students. Parents cannot chat casually in the group. However, some parents pin the parent group to the top of the list, and sometimes sends messages to the parent group by mistake when they are busy. If the content posted is too special, it will cause discussions in the parent group, and it is difficult for teachers to control the situation for a while.
Just like this dad, he sent the wrong message to his student’s mother to the parent group. The general content of the post was about planning to have a second child. Seeing such news, other parents became uneasy and asked the dad how to send it. Wrong group. Some parents comforted themselves by saying that it was really nothing to make a fuss about. Many parents had experienced it. Some parents even said that they would start to have a "second child" in .
While other parents were discussing, Bao’s mother bluntly said that she was too embarrassed to meet people and didn’t know how to face other parents when picking up her students. In fact, such large-scale "social death" scenes often occur in parent groups.
This father was also very careless and accidentally sent a message of love to his mother to the parent group, "I will be back tomorrow, I miss you so much", and even rewarded him. When you realize you sent the wrong message, it's already too late to withdraw it. Other parents will also feel embarrassed when they see the content. Situations like this where messages are sent by mistake have fully witnessed what is meant by "as long as I am not embarrassed, others will be embarrassed."
Some parents were even more embarrassed when they mistakenly sent a message complaining about the teacher to the parent group . At this time, they were afraid that the air would suddenly become quiet. Other parents did not dare to say anything and were watching silently, but this teacher was very He is witty and knows that the parents may have sent the wrong message, but still answers the parents' questions very seriously and head-on.
Whenever this happens, the teacher will come forward to smooth things over and remind the parents who sent the wrong message not to let this happen again. It is recommended that other parents not continue the discussion in the parent group. 's current parent group often encounters various problems, which makes many parents avoid it when it comes to parents. In fact, the environment of the parent group needs to be maintained by everyone. As long as teachers and parents strictly abide by the regulations of the parent group, the positive role of the parent group can be fully exerted.
How should teachers and parents use the parent group correctly? The main manager in the
parent group is the head teacher, and other teachers are basically only responsible for posting homework. When the class teacher first establishes the parent group, he should clearly write down the group rules in the announcement. For example, parents cannot post random messages in the parent group, and cannot quarrel or argue, otherwise they will be removed from the group chat; the group must adopt a real-name system. Be clear about so-and-so’s father or so-and-so’s mother in the notes; you can’t post ads, swipe the screen, etc.
Teachers should also be strict with themselves. When posting homework notices, homework feedback, learning sharing, etc. in the group, they should pay attention to the wording. They can simply praise individual students, but they should try to avoid naming and criticizing. When sharing photos of activities, be sure to include photos of each student, otherwise parents will feel that the teacher is partial.
It is not enough for the teacher to manage the parent group alone. It requires a high degree of cooperation from parents. In fact, what parents have to do is very simple, that is, abide by the group rules set by the teacher and do not post non-compliant messages in the group. See Go to the teacher to post messages and give positive feedback. If you encounter problems that you don’t understand, you can ask the teacher for help. .
If parents have other ideas about the teacher’s education methods, they can chat with the teacher privately. Do not question the teacher in public. This may intensify conflicts and affect the overall environment of the parent group. Not to mention verbal conflicts with other parents, which will not only embarrass the teacher, but also affect the student's image in the minds of other parents. In the parent group, parents represent students, and their words and deeds must consider the impact on students.
Today’s topic: Have you ever sent a message to the parent group by mistake?
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