As the saying goes: There are eight sufferings in life, namely making a living, old age, illness, death, separation from love, meeting of resentment and hatred, failure to seek, and failure to forget. Walking in this world, only by knowing how to give up can you be healed and not

As the saying goes: There are eight hardships in life , making a living separately, old age, illness, death, love and separation, resentment and hatred, not being able to ask for, and not being able to forget.

Walking in this world, only by knowing how to give up can we heal and avoid sinking into the sea of ​​suffering.

1. There is such a story in the long history of

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Tang TaizongLi Shimin loved Wang Xizhi's calligraphy. Since he discovered the authentic copy of " Lanting Preface " in defense of the monk, he sent people to ask for it many times.

But the eloquent monk insisted: I don’t know where the original work is.

So Li Shimin decided to outwit him and sent Xiao Ji, who knew calligraphy and painting, to disguise himself as a scholar and approach the eloquent monk.

Xiao Ji gradually became acquainted with Debian and had close contacts.

On this day, Xiao Ji took down several works of Wang Xizhi and admired them with Monk Biancai, attracting Monk Biancai to take down the original "Preface to Orchid Pavilion" from the roof beam.

Unexpectedly, after Xiao Ji read it, he immediately put it in his sleeve and took down the relevant delivery order from Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty.

The debate missed the original work, and he was frightened and depressed. He died in less than a year.

Writer Bai Luomei once said:

"Life is a game of chess, and we are always powerless when it comes to winning or losing. When we are at a loss, most of it is when we are at a loss. pk, when you When you understand, you are already on the outside. "

In life, there are bound to be some things missing and some things that cannot be done.

If you always get entangled in this kind of settled matter, in the end, you will no longer have trouble with things, but with yourself.

There is a line in the movie " Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon ": "When you clench your hands, there is nothing inside; when you open your hands, the world is in your hands."

is powerless about things in life, Letting go at the right time is the best practice.

Break it off immediately, throw away the burden, only then can you go into battle easily and go a longer way

2. People who have no destiny in life should give up.

Sanmao mentioned: Time is beautiful, because it will inevitably disappear.

firmly believes in it. So is life.

Not everyone who breaks into your life will last forever.

I have heard such stories.

Two young monks lived on two mountains respectively.

They often met on the way down the mountain to carry water, and they became friends for a long time. They agreed to carry water together every day and stayed together through thick and thin.

One day, a young novice did not go down from the mountain to carry water. Another novice novice guessed that he probably overslept.

However, on the second day, the third day... for several consecutive days, the young novice did not meet his friends.

He was anxious and thought: My friend must be sick, I want to see him.

He climbed up the mountain where his friend lived, only to see him having fun with a group of novice monks in the temple.

The little novice asked forward: "I haven't waited for you in the past few days. I thought you were sick. I came to see you."

Unexpectedly, the little friend sent him to the yard, turned to a well and said:

" I have been digging this well not long ago, and recently I finally dug out water. I no longer have to go down the mountain to carry water.”

The little novice went down the mountain speechless.

He couldn't figure it out. They had agreed to carry water together, but the other party suddenly dug a well.

He asked his master to express his troubles.

The master smiled indifferently: The fate of the world has its own destiny. When fate comes together, fate falls apart. No one can live without anyone.

The little novice monk said: But I still can’t let go.

The master asked him to take out the water cup on the table and pour hot water into the cup.

kept filling up the water and running out. The little novice was so burned that he let go and the cup fell to the ground and broke. Master

mentioned: Life is like a river, what should come will always come, and what should go will always float away. Nothing is unacceptable. .cannot give up. If you feel pain, you will naturally let go of your hand.

Emotions in the world are all like this. Not only friendship, but also emotion.

is like Gong Er who has always liked Ip Man in the movie " The Grandmaster ", and finally bid farewell to Ip Man: "I like you, but only here."

For people who are destined to be missed in life, they help each other. , it is better to forget each other in the world.

Only if you are willing to give up can you gain something. All the encounters in life are actually to make room for the arrival of something cherished.

3. When you are troubled and obsessed, you should leave

The eminent monk Wumen Huikai of the Tang Dynasty once wrote a poem:

There are hundreds of flowers in spring and a moon in autumn, and there is a cool breeze in summer and snow in winter.

If you have nothing to worry about, it is a good time in the world.

If anyone lives the best life in the world, there is only Li Shutong .

Feng Zikai once described Li Shutong's life:

When he was a young man, he was a young master, like a handsome young man; Be like a musician; run a newspaper, like an editor;

be a teacher, like a teacher; be a monk, like a monk.

Li Shutong, who was born into a wealthy and famous family, worked hard in the first half of his life and achieved considerable academic attainments.

However, at his peak, he left the prosperity of the world and turned around and fled into the empty door.

In the second half of life, there is a green lantern, a scroll, a plum tree, and a Buddha.

He mentioned: "The brilliant extremes will eventually return to mediocrity."

Mr. Cao Xueqin did his best when he was born, but encountered the confiscation of his home when he was young.

In this life, "the family often eats porridge and wine on credit" in poverty, withdrawing from the ups and downs of the first half of life, adjusting to the separation of love and hate, and letting go of the prosperity and subjugation of the country.

With a peaceful heart, he leaned over and asked about every life in the Grand View Garden, and finally wrote the handed down classic "A Dream of Red Mansions".

After helping Liu Bang win the world, Zhang Liang, who was in the clouds of history, chose to give up his position, successfully retreated, and traveled around the world.

Looking back on the three heroes of the Early Han Dynasty, he was the only one who had the protection of Mingzhe.

Just like Huang Tingjian wrote when he visited "Liangshan Taoist Temple": There are many Chang'an fame and fortune, but it is not as good as you if you run out of institutions.

When people were young, Wong Kar-wai often said in movies: When you see a mountain, you want to know what is behind the mountain.

Traveling all the way over mountains and ridges, seeing all the scenery, I finally understood that the prosperity has faded away, and the hustle and bustle is dust.

For life, only by having the courage to let your heart return to zero can you enjoy the blessing of life.

You don’t need to care too much for the rest of your life. Only by breaking away from the obsessions that bother you can you face life with a smile and live in a free and unrestrained way.

I like the realm of famous people and old trees very much:

In this world, there is a cloud building, and the sky is full of wind and rain without any worries.

Gains and losses of fame and wealth are nothing, I will only bow to flowers in this life.

The more objects a person can put down, the more capable he is.

An empty cup can hold good tea; an empty heart can produce all things.

solves the complex life and understands that by simplifying the complex, you can live without fatigue; only by keeping your heart, can you be self-sufficient and stable.

For the rest of my life, try your best to get what you want, and let go of what you no longer need.

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