I don’t know when it started. My son no longer likes to listen to me. As soon as you said it, he would impatiently confront you, "Don’t bother me, can you?" "Don’t worry!" In short, he seemed to start communicating with you in various impatient tones.
At first glance, parents will feel unhappy. What is this attitude? But Wuming's evil fire couldn't help but ask himself, how is this child doing recently, why don't you care? In fact, there is a hidden meaning behind the impatient children. If you grasp the key point. The children are still very well educated.
Impression 1: Don’t worry about me, but I hope to be managed by parents.
Sometimes what children say may not be the real meaning to express. What they say is "Don’t worry about me" but actually "Why don’t you care about me?" It probably means blaming you. This is the result of your failure to discipline me in time.
So, when we hear the child say such things, don’t be angry or retort. It’s better to hug the child and hug her into the house to complete what you want him to accomplish.
Impression 2: Don’t worry, I actually just don’t know what I think
If your child always tells you, you may think that you don’t understand him and don’t know what he really thinks, that is, there is a problem with the communication between parents and children. This makes parents very anxious, and in fact the children are also very wronged.
So, parents should not just be concerned about losing their temper, but also learn how to educate their children. Scientific educational methods can prevent our thoughts from being out of date, and also help children improve their learning awareness and academic performance.
Impression Three: Don’t worry, behind me is that I have grown up
Children will grow up one day, and psychological growth starts with them no longer needing too much intervention. They have their own opinions, they have their own pursuits, they have their own space, and they begin to feel that they are already adults and have the ability to do what they like. This shows that when the child grows up, we as parents should be happy for the child.
In short, when children are unwilling to let their parents manage themselves at the beginning, they are declaring sovereignty, and expressing emotions in disguise. As parents, we should fully understand the reasons behind the children and then take the initiative to help children assume their own responsibilities.
Regardless of whether the child is right or wrong, it is necessary to respect the child and guide the child to discover and correct the problem by himself, instead of just punishing and preaching like he did when he was a child.
Help children learn to manage themselves, it's just right now. Therefore, parents and friends should master the psychology of parenting and education, which will help us understand that children come into and change them.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
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