Wen丨Mo Xiang’s mother (original article, welcome to reprint)
"You look so good when you smile, like a spring flower", said that the baby’s smile is the best in the world , The most healing expression , just like a little angel, can pass the happy and wasteful breath to the people around. This is why many people will find a way to make him laugh when they see a newborn or someone else’s baby.
A smile from the baby relieved a "unreasonable" quarrel, very heart-warming
Some time ago I went to see Xiao Liu and his wife who had just been promoted to be a nanny and dad. They gave birth to nothing Chubby baby, want to take a look. Who knows that not long after I first went home, Xiao Liu complained to me that he felt that his wife was suffering from "postpartum depression" Some unprovoked trivial things would get angry. As it was said, his wife hugged him from the room. The child came out and just put the child on the sofa, she began to let me judge .
- Wife: "He doesn't do anything after work, so he just lay down"
- Husband: "I didn't do it. I didn't cook for you. What do you want?"
- Wife: "Have you helped with the laundry, mopping the floor, cleaning up the room, and taking out the trash?"
- Husband: "What about you? Just stay idle and not move?"
See it The argument is about to start, baby suddenly laughed "Hey~haha~um" , the three of us all leaned in to see the baby’s reaction, who knew he was smiling and happy and started dancing , this laugh also made the couple laugh, and did not continue arguing, Xiao Liu began to clean up the room consciously, and Bao Ma started to play with the child while preparing the bottle. Look, how amazing, a smile from a baby relieves an unnecessary quarrel.
Newborn baby will only have two emotional expressions-"cry" and "laugh". Let's not mention "cry", let's talk about the baby "laugh".
When a newborn baby smiles, it is to send a signal to Bao’s mother that he is now very comfortable and in good health , and found a sense of security. After the baby adapts to the environment, he will smile at you, which means he has already I recognize you and know that you are a mother who can be trusted and depended on. This is why when the baby is not used to the environment or crying, he will find his mother as soon as possible.
In fact, the earlier the baby will laugh at the age of the month, it not only indicates that the baby is developing well, but also hides the information of high IQ , because usually the baby will do these three behaviors at the age of laughing. , That means the baby has a particularly high IQ.
The baby will do these 3 actions during the laughing period, which implies that your baby has a high IQ.
1. Express emotions: make a happy voice
The baby will laugh, which means that the brain and the body have a strong ability to cooperate. , regardless of brain development and physical development, the baby is in a happy and positive state.
will make some behaviors at this time. For example, when no one is teasing him, will make a "chuckling" laugh. The voice is high and low like singing. These are the emotions of the baby. One way, , means that he is now in a state of excitement. This behavior shows that the baby knows how to express emotions.
2. Be serious and focus: Who speaks depends on whom
Some babies are very clever, if you talk to him, just look at you , Or whoever talks to him will look at the person making the sound, as if he can hear you. As long as you smile at him, he will also laugh with you, or if your little hand unconsciously grasps after you finish speaking, it means that the baby is tallXing, I am very interested in you.
3. Distinguishing ability: Judging the tone
For the familiar voices , as long as you speak them, he will be very happy and happy , If you are a stranger, the act of making him laugh makes your baby find it interesting and will naturally make a sound. Or if the voice is good or bad, the baby can also distinguish . For example, Bao Ma reprimands the baby and speaks with the baby in a soft tone, his reaction is completely different.
This can distinguish the behavior of characters by sound and behavior , which has shown that the child has strong discrimination and sensory ability, brain has begun to speed up Development and ability to make judgments is also a sign of high IQ.
Let the baby laugh more and keep happy, interact with the baby more is the key
▶ Make a ghost face
Sight and hearing are the two major sources of information for babies in the early stage Sensual, often making funny faces to your child can make your child look at your face and remember your appearance. At the same time, the funny face will make your baby laugh easily after seeing it.
▶Use toys in a clever way
Toys with sounds or rich colors can arouse the baby’s emotions. Use the toy to touch the child’s limbs and body, so that the baby can grasp. When you deliberately remove the toy and play with the baby repeatedly, the child thinks that you will be happy if you play with him again.
▶Multi-point physical contact
Give your baby more strokes or kisses, which can stimulate the development of nerve cells, so that the stimulus information generated by the baby through the sense of touch can be transmitted to the brain, so that they can laugh at the same time. Contribute to the development of the brain. In addition, often touch your baby, let the baby familiar with your feelings can also bring closer the relationship between parents and children.
▶Listen to soothing music more
Light music or slow-paced music can help calm the baby’s emotions and make the baby calm down. At the same time, Mom and Dad can also hum to the baby. Sing a song to make him feel that you are interacting with him, even if his five tone is not complete, which can strengthen the baby's familiarity with you. Of course, the music recommendations here are some performances or light music, those popular music can be played first.
Xiaobian summary
When a baby laughs, it means he is conscious, able to recognize people, and has a strong sense of familiarity with his mother. The baby is in the laughing age for 1-3 months after birth, can make a "chuckling" in this month, which implies that the newborn has a high IQ. Of course, this is not absolute, and it is also very important for the cultivation of children in later stages .
Regardless of whether the baby smiles in his own way or is amused by others, this is a behavior of the baby reacting to the outside world. Some babies will laugh all the time after seeing people. This is actually unique to them" "Say hello". When you see a baby like this, who doesn’t love it and wants to hug it?
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