"Mom, I'm so uncomfortable", the 4-year-old daughter cried bitterly while carrying her pants, and her mother collapsed instantly

2020/12/2321:20:29 baby 568
Z0z Baoma Xiaotian has a 4-year-old daughter. The child has reached the age to go to kindergarten. Because the child was brought by his mother alone when he was young, it is unavoidable to be spoiled. Therefore, when choosing kindergarten, Oda was also very cautious. After several choices, Oda chose a more expensive school for her daughter.

Bao Ma believes that expensive schools must have better conditions in all aspects, and the teachers will also be very qualified, but I did not expect that the children would have problems within a few days of school. On this day, Bao's mother planned to start cooking after receiving the child from school, but she did not expect her daughter to keep pulling her pants and asking her what was wrong, but the child didn't say anything. Perhaps because it was too uncomfortable, the daughter finally couldn't help it, and she cried bitterly while holding her pants: "Mom, I'm so uncomfortable"

Mom collapsed instantly after taking off her daughter's pants. The inside of her daughter's pants was full of mud, and the girl's skin was also reddened by the mud. Bao's mother asked about the reason, but her daughter kept silent. After doing a simple cleaning for her daughter, Bao's mother patiently and slowly led her to tell the truth.

It turned out that because the little girl used to go to the bathroom frequently at school and she just went to school, she didn't pull her pants. The teacher was very angry, so she grabbed a handful of dirt and threw it in the child's pants. Hearing that Bao Ma was very angry, she went to the school to go through the formalities of leaving the kindergarten the next day, and at the same time held accountability of the teacher, and exposed the matter on the Internet.

Many parents always feel that the kindergarten fees are high when choosing kindergartens, and they must have better conditions in all aspects. But in fact, whether the kindergarten is good or not, these are all superficial phenomena. The most important thing is the following three points. What are the three points of

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1. The level of kindergarten teachers

Check whether a school is good or not. Although the environment is very important, it is the teacher who educates children at the same time, and the level of the teacher is also very important. Even if the child is not going to an expensive private school, as long as the quality of the teacher is good, the child can still benefit a lot from having a good kindergarten teacher. As long as the teacher is dedicated enough and willing to care for every child, then this kindergarten is suitable for children.

2, the history of the park

is all around us. More parents are willing to let their children go to public schools instead of private schools, because although private schools are expensive, they don’t take a long time to run a kindergarten, and all aspects cannot be guaranteed. Public schools are cheap and have a long history. They have better educational concepts, and public kindergartens have a better reputation, and they can provide children with the best protection in all aspects.

3, what other parents say about the school

school will use various methods to promote each year when enrolling students, in order to show the good side of their school, so as to obtain more students. But in fact, whether the school is good or not, parents will know something about it as time goes by. For a good school, the parents' evaluation of them must be very high, and for a bad school, the parents' evaluation of them must also be very bad. In fact, parents of new students can know by just asking.

Many parents think that children can go to kindergarten when they are three years old. However, although going to kindergarten has a certain relationship with age, if children do not have the following skills to go to school, it will cause great harm. What kind of skills are

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: Independent living skills

If children already have a certain degree of independence, for example, they can eat by themselves, go to the bathroom by themselves, and be able to perform simple dressing. Such children should not have much problem going to school. But there are also some children who are very well protected by their parents since childhood. They have parents' help for everything and lack life skills. Such children will encounter a lot of trouble even when they go to school.

: Good communication skills

The communication skills of each child are different. Some children have strong language skills and can accurately speak their own thoughts. There are also some children who are unable to speak a single sentence fluently. For this kind of children, parents do not need to send them to school too early, forcing them to school will not only make the children's personality become withdrawn, but also detrimental to the development of language skills.

Every year when freshmen go to kindergarten, there are often scenes of crying and tears at the school gate, and some children do not go to schoolI was persuaded by the teacher to go home again a few days. Parents must focus on cultivating their children's life skills and communication skills before sending their children to school. In addition, they must carefully select and choose a school that is good in all aspects before entering school. This will do no harm to the children.

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