The "love triangle" of teachers, students, and parents is here again. This is not the case where the head of the school gives the teacher a pennant again, but the content of this pennant has caused people to say something different-"Teaching is not good, and parents are first name". The picture of
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An incident about "teachers, students, parents" became popular on the Internet, but in retrospect, who pays for this incident?
is our child
Take the incident of sending the pennant as an example, it may be the parent’s impulse and a hot head; perhaps it feels very beautiful and eye-catching; it may also “pop” the Internet; but Maybe after this continual rush, whether to think quietly afterwards, whether there will be such a trace of regret.
Many parents are also speaking out about the incident, believing that the man has said what they want, saying what they dare not say, and advertised "all for the child" and "endure everything for the child". But if it is really for the children, can this behavior be done?
The behavior of the parents in the incident did not agree. If there is a problem, you can communicate on the table instead of taking excessive behavior, because this will not only make the teacher stand on the cusp of the storm, but also let your children stand on the cusp of the storm. In the end, it is only his children who hurt the most. Not to mention whether the teacher will treat the children differently, even the classmates will treat their children in different ways.
How to classify?
First: Children who study well and have good morals will become more and more alienated from your children, because they feel that they are with your children, and they feel that they are also labeled as "similar". Children like the teacher's praise. I like the recognition of my classmates and the praise of the society. And your child is standing on the cusp of such a storm, how should he be praised? Will it be recognized? It was originally a shame to call parents in the eyes of the children, and a shame in the eyes of the classmates, you also help the children to promote and advertise it. This puts the pressure on the child's heart and how much impact it will have on the child's mental health.
Second: Children who are poor in learning, playful, and trouble-making will win over your children because they think they are a kind of people, a kind of people who are considered to be poor and trouble-makers. Think that what you do is to support them and to support them. Over time, only time will know what your child will become.
We have all come from our school days, and we are no strangers to the grouping of students and small groups, and it can be said that we have a deep memory. "Near Zhu is red and near ink is black." Our parents, who have a deep understanding, do not guide their children how to go better, but we can't let them go to the "bad" team because of us. The pictures of
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Meng’s mother is the “three migrations” for her children, and we as parents should not affect our children because of the “collapse” of our adults. So rationally solving problems is the best protection for children. "Parents are the best teachers for children", what parents do will be "inherited" to their children to a certain extent.
We are the parents of children, and the collapse of adults should not be brought into the world of children.
Actually everything is for the children.
For teachers, students, and parents to do better in learning this matter, we will discuss in the next article.
