parents must see:
's method of educating children is very important. Parents always want to give the best to their children, hoping that they can grow into promising people, so they always spare no effort to educate their children. But the wrong way of education is often counterproductive. Correct education and guidance are the key to helping children grow up healthily.
1. Don't take drastic measures.
Some parents think that "you can't be a weapon if you don't think about it." So whenever a child makes a mistake, he does not want to calmly think about assumptions. Instead, he scolded him first and then beat him. Treating the child so crudely, not only is there no way to make the child truly realize his mistakes, but it is also very likely to leave a shadow in his heart, and his personality can easily become extreme.
2. To lead by example
parents' words and deeds, the children have seen that their imitating ability is very strong, empty preaching is far less than the impact of actual actions. Isn't there such a public service advertisement? When the mother washes her feet, the younger son will learn to wash her feet. In the same way, "the upper beam is not straight, the lower beam is crooked". If the parent’s behavior is bad, it’s hard to say that the educated child is not a replica of failure. This shows that the words and deeds of adults are really important.
3. Pay attention to the role of emotions
Different emotions have different effects on people's psychology. Positive emotions make life happy, full of confidence, and comfortable; negative emotions make life depressing, lack of confidence and depression. Similarly, different emotions have different effects on parents' psychology and behavior. Positive emotions can inspire parents to actively understand their children in a loving way, care about their children's growth, educate and cultivate children in a democratic and scientific way, so that the parent-child relationship is closely coordinated, and the family atmosphere is harmonious and warm. Parents should pay attention to the role of their own emotions in family education, and strive to cultivate and maintain positive emotions, overcome and eliminate negative emotions.
