mentioned doing homework, this is definitely the first killer to hurt the parent-child relationship. Let the child do his homework consciously, and strictly require the child from the first day of the homework, and let him develop the habit of taking homework seriously. In fact, in the interest classes before elementary school, the children started to have homework. Many people think that the homework in the hobby classes is not important. The children are still young and the hobby classes are just for fun. The homework can be done or not. As everyone knows, not only do the homework of interest class, but also do it seriously. Because this is the source of homework, it is very important to cultivate children's good habits from the source. If the preschool homework is not paid attention to, the child will have the illusion that homework does not need to be done. It will be difficult to correct this concept after primary school.
My daughter had her first homework in a dance class when she was four years old, and she had a problem doing homework. The little girl performed very well in the dance class, but when it was time for homework in the family, she became awkward, procrastinated, not serious, and turned into a scumbag. The mother is incarnation of the ghost mother, yelling and screaming, very distressed both in the big and small.
This makes me very puzzled, why the good students who love dancing in the dance class become disobedient elementary school scum when they come home. After my observation of the dance teacher and the communication with the children, I finally understood that there are two reasons why children do not cooperate with the completion of homework at home. One is that there is no atmosphere at home. For children, the living room at home is a small playground, not An elegant stage makes it difficult for children to concentrate. Second, the educator is not authoritative enough. In my daughter's eyes, my mother is her best playmate, not a teacher or a sparring partner, and she does not need to strictly follow her orders and preaching.
After clarifying the situation, I quickly placed an order for a mirror and installed it at home, and laid a small carpet on the floor in front of the mirror, telling the children that this is a dedicated area for our dancing homework. In this area, mother No longer a fun mother, but a dance teacher, we have to do it like in a dance classroom.
In the beginning, the child was very uncomfortable with the mother who suddenly became serious. I tried my best to make my mother laugh, but I continued to adjust myself to be a gentle and firm parent with gentleness and seriousness. She quickly accepted the need to be done seriously at home The rules of the job. From then on, facing any homework assignment, I can complete it seriously.
allows children to develop a good habit of taking homework seriously from the hobby class. Parents and mothers must not only implement it firmly, but also take effective measures according to their children's age characteristics, so that children can transition smoothly and fall in love with learning.
