When a new life is born, many problems will follow one after another. One of them is very distressing: Who will bring a child on earth will the child grow up better?
In fact, some people know this answer. He often doesn't have a mother to do meticulously. Unlike his mother, he can stay with him for a long time. Sometimes he can't even see anyone. One day he even saw a drunk person.
Yes, this person is the father.
The pillar of a family is always absent from the child’s growth because of work. In order to give the child a better living condition, I don’t mind the dizziness and vomiting that I drink.
experts have come to this conclusion after research: fathers have a unique advantage in educating children.
Let fathers take care of children, smarter than mothers
1, Dad’s principle
We may not accumulate too much wealth and reputation, but every parent has accumulated some good experiences through life. And quality.
Being soft-hearted is a big weakness for mothers, and it is easy to have no principles. After the child made a mistake, although the child was very angry, but the child cried and then acted like a baby, sometimes the child would not be punished accordingly. This happened, but the father was the opposite. It’s not easy. If you’re wrong, you’re wrong. Punishment means punishment. Although it seems unkind, it will teach children a lot. Let your children know that you must be measured and not make mistakes.
Cultivating children’s good character is not a matter of overnight, but requires the joint efforts of parents and children. In fact, there is a period when the best period for cultivating children is at the age of 3~6. This age is the character The shaping period. In order to cultivate character for my children, I bought this set of "Good Boy, Good Quality Series". There are 12 volumes in
, and the topics are also very rich. The stories about children's character development include "I am a confident child", "Be the best of myself", "I am a capable child", "I am not afraid of difficulties", "I am the best in kindergarten".
has "I have good habits in life" and "We must obey the rules" in terms of cultivating children's rules. There are also very practical "I love to make friends", "I am not afraid of primary school" and "I will protect myself". The design of story and audio not only makes this picture book able to see but also listen to it!
In addition, the book also comes with a height ruler, you can observe the height of the child at any time. I really like the sellers of this set of books. They are very careful. The books are all packed in boxes to ensure the integrity of the books. Ms. Zhu Shiyuan, the vice chairman of the Chinese Association for Preschool Education, recommended it.
and the paper and size of the book are very good, specially made a circular design in the corner of the book to prevent hurting the child.
2. Dads can take their children to explore
Dads generally like to take their children to play with some more challenging and exploratory things, and these kinds of things may cause some minor harm to the children, and mothers generally don’t Choose this type of place to play. Therefore, children will play this type of things under the guidance of their father. This type of thing can enhance the child's exploration ability and courage. This also indirectly teaches children how to face difficulties and the belief that they will not shrink from difficulties.
3. Fathers can better exercise their children’s hands-on ability
let children do what they can do
Actually, from an educational point of view, fathers usually choose to encourage their children to do some things by themselves, and mothers prefer to help children do these things Up. So Dad's requirements are very strict in comparison. For example, father and mother take their children out to play separately. Dad takes children more to play and experience more new things; while mothers take their children out to play and experience more new things. Mothers care about whether the children will be injured. Hungry for some more details. So in contrast, fathers with children can better exercise their children's hands-on ability.
4, fathers are more planned in education
fathers usually have a plan to cultivate children's quality and develop their abilities. Obviously, what to do and what conditions are needed, mom mayIt will be worse in this regard. Most mothers have high expectations for their children, but in actual education, mothers often seem to have no plans.
So fathers bringing children will make children smarter than mothers, but fathers can’t do that because she doesn’t have the mother to be careful in the process of bringing children, so as a father, it’s best not to be absent from the child. Educational growth, your education will make children better.
