As the saying goes, one inch wide of heart will benefit three points. This sentence is not only telling us to face difficulties with an optimistic attitude. From a medical point of view, a good attitude is often more effective than a panacea for curing diseases. So some seriously ill patients can live like ordinary people when they don’t know their condition, but once they know the truth, their physical condition will decline rapidly. This is actually a truth.
During the Republic of China, there was a famous lady who was treated by a doctor and told her: You can live up to 50 years old, but she didn't care about it. Instead, she decided to cherish the limited time and set three lives for herself. According to the rules, the result has been to live to 93 years old. The woman
is the famous Zhang Yun and
Zhang Yunhe ranked second among the four sisters. She was born in 1909, but it is a coincidence that Zhang Yunhe passed by the god of death twice in his life. Once when she was just born, Zhang Yunhe was born in the summer, and she did not say anything when she came out of the womb. Other newborns must cry loudly, but Zhang Yunhe made no sound and her eyes were closed. Yes, it was hard to feel her breathing, so the family was worried and thought that Zhang Yunhe had died.
But Zhang Yunhe’s old grandmother felt that “this child will be very lucky in the future”. After using the “smoke method”, Zhang Yunhe moved, and the family opened their eyes again and welcomed the new birth child. But what I didn't expect was that Zhang Yunhe would later become the crying child in the family, and he didn't stop crying, but Zhang Yunhe still loved Zhang Yunhe very much by the Zhang family. When
grows up, Zhang Yunhe doesn't cry much, and his personality is very lively, and he has become the pistachio in the family again.
Zhang Yunhe also walked through Guimenguan once when she was in her 40s. At this time, she suffered from heart disease. Two well-known doctors reminded her that "you can live up to 50 years", and to At this time, Zhang Yunhe had also experienced many changes: her daughter who was less than 6 years old died of appendicitis, and her only son was hit by a stray bullet in the stomach during the war. He had 6 holes in his intestines and almost left her, but Fortunately, the operation was timely and he was rescued. After
was issued the death notice, Zhang Yunhe accepted it calmly and set three principles for himself: one should not blame herself for others’ faults, two should not offend others with one’s own faults, and three should not be punished for their own faults. Yourself.
Zhang Yunhe’s life hasn’t changed much. He is very optimistic about taking care of her husband Zhou Youguang and children. However, it seems that God has also been infected by Zhang Yunhe, so she “beloved” her. Zhang Yunhe has been healthy until he is 93 years old. , And the two doctors "one step ahead" and died before Zhang Yunhe passed away.
But speaking of longevity, there is another interesting thing in Zhang Yunhe’s life. Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang met and fell in love at the age of 16. To outsiders, they are a combination of a rich daughter and a poor boy, but Zhang Yun He's parents are very open-minded and support their free love.
In April 1933, Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang began to prepare for their marriage. Their wedding day was set at the end of the month. Therefore, the old people said that this day was unlucky and it was an "end of the day". The nanny in the family also cared about Zhang Yunhe. The fortune teller quietly used Zhou Youguang’s and Zhang Yunhe’s "eight characters" to tell the fortunes of the marriage event. The fortune teller boldly predicted: "Neither of them will live to be 35 years old."
But Zhang Yunhe did not take these words to heart. Said: "I believe that when the old comes to an end, it will be a new beginning." So Zhang Yunhe and Zhou Youguang married as scheduled on April 30, and they have spent 70 years together since then.
