Ling Yanzi
Ling Yanzi, a certified instructor for PDA parents in the United States, parent-child education expert, mother of two children, parent-child reading expert.
The three things that ruin children’s concentration. Many parents are doing
In order to make their children a better member of the crowd, many parents have exhausted their efforts and brains to send their children to various early education classes and foreign classes. But not effective. In fact, looking at the children who can learn well, you will be surprised to find that it is not blind "effort" that determines children's excellent grades and growth factors, but their own concentration!
Concentration, that is, attention, it refers to a person's mental state when concentrating on one thing or one activity. Concentration is an important foundation for children's future learning. Children with strong concentration can concentrate on one thing and maximize the effect of learning within a unit time. That is, the better the concentration, the higher the efficiency of learning and the better the grades.
However, many parents in life sometimes do things that destroy their children's concentration because they are "good for their children". These few things destroy their children's concentration. See if you are doing it?
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often interrupts or interrupts the child
Remember the educator Montessori said: "Unless you are invited by the child, you should never disturb the child."
The child is drawing, and the grandmother will ask if he is thirsty or not. Don't drink water? I will ask if you are hungry, do you want to eat some fruit?
The child is playing with toys. Mom walked over and said, stop playing, and wash your hands quickly to prepare for dinner.
The child is doing puzzles. Dad said that he didn't hurry to do his homework, and he is not allowed to play until he finishes his homework.
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Children often have no reason, but are very engaged in doing things that are meaningless and unimportant in the eyes of adults. From the perspective of parents, eating, bathing, and studying are more important, so they always interrupt or interrupt their children indifferently. But parents who understand their children know that this period is actually a good time for their children to concentrate and develop. For young children, good concentration cannot be cultivated, but more protection is needed!
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5zoften helps and guides their children
Some parents see that their children learn very slowly, so they can’t help but guide them For example, the child is playing with a jigsaw puzzle, holding the jigsaw for a long time, and the mother can’t help but guide and put it here; another example is the child doing homework, and the result has just been written down, the mother immediately said, wrong, wrong, hurry up Erasing and rewriting... This behavior of
is very bad for the child's concentration. Maybe you are good for the child, but he is slow in learning, maybe just thinking, your frequent interruption and interference will only divert him His attention affects his concentration.
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often scolds and nagging children
When a child is naughty or does not do what he wants, many parents will scold the child and nag for a long time. Frequent accusations can make children nervous and insecure; frequent nagging makes children feel bored and resisted. Both of these methods make the child become emotional and unable to keep calm inside, so it is difficult to concentrate on doing things.
Children’s concentration is so important. As parents, we might as well restrain ourselves when our children concentrate on doing things, and stop interrupting and disturbing children at will.
