Today’s topic
World view, what is the view?
I have talked to you about how to let your children explore the world in their own way. In fact, every young child will be full of various curiosities about the world and imagine what kind of color the scenery outside looks like. They will also play their own roles to communicate with their own world. Z2z
Tie is very loyal to exploring the world. Fortunately, there is a plant corner on our small balcony. There is still a chance for him to dig out all kinds of flowers and plants, but he will often tell me "Dad, I want to go out." Look at what it looks like outside!”
Due to the sudden global epidemic in 2020, this little guy Tie has actually been closed at home for more than half a year. We also try to prevent him from contacting the outside world. The curiosity of things, he always touched everywhere with his hands, and put all kinds of things in his mouth, which greatly shortened the time and length of his going out.
But we can't stand this kid talking in our ears every day, can't we not see the world without going out, we can't cultivate a "world view"?
NO!NO!NO!
1. What is the worldview? Do children need it too?
Many people think that children are young and don't understand anything. Is it necessary to cultivate a worldview? Do children need to know about the world's problems? Does the child need to understand?
My answer is yes. Their worldview may not be what we define, but a mode of thinking that cultivates them to see and understand the world.
Before, there was a 4-year-old girl who took her handwriting and told her teacher that my writing was not as good as a 6-year-old handwriting. Some people couldn’t understand her writing and she was not happy. The teacher said, do you know yourself? The little girl nodded, and the teacher continued, that's enough. A 3-year-old kid writes a 3-year-old character, and a 4-year-old kid writes a 4-year-old character. You just need to be the best at this time. Don't care too much about whether people in other grades understand it.
Similarly, a few-year-old child should have a few-year-old worldview. And we adults are the beacon for them to build a worldview. We can provide him with some channels to gain knowledge, or ways to lift the rules.
2. Reading and enlightenment, develop good habits!
It can be said that children nowadays are very smart, and each one is a seedling of genius. "The destiny is the nature, and the frankness is the Tao." It is an unbreakable truth to discover a child's talent and nature, and let it be brought into full play and released.
But in the process of raising children, many parents violated this truth. Inventing geniuses and designing geniuses according to their own utilitarian ideas, but backfired and killed the genius. Maybe we just need to provide them with some "tools" at this time.
Now the Internet is so convenient, we can buy a lot of picture books from the Internet, about the ocean, about nature, about animals, and so on. In such a special period, we can accompany our children to experience the vast world at home.
We can also put down the electronic products at hand and accompany the children to explore the world depicted in the picture book, and I am sure that more than 50% of the content in the book is probably not in contact with adults.
shows the vastness of the world in square inches, and cultivating the use of "reference books" from an early age and developing a good habit of reading and reading can be used by children for a lifetime. He is not required to understand, but he is required to have such a habit. A good habit of
is like a huge sum of money deposited in the bank, allowing children to enjoy inexhaustible and generous interest for life. The correct values, world outlook, and outlook on life are reflected, tested, and superimposed from the habits of every day, every word and deed, and every thing.
Three, follow the temptation, fault tolerance and correction!
The best news for all families with children in 2020 is the good news of the beginning of the school. The four words "God Beasts Return" perfectly interpret the inner joy of parents. Many parents are happy and firecrackers.
It can be seen that in the long-term life of the epidemic, everyone is not a peaceful atmosphere of loving mothers and filial piety. Tie Dad believes that the biggest problem is that the world in the eyes of parents is entertainment, relaxation, and I feel you want to be obedient. The child’s world is, I want to play, I want to go out to play, and I have to play with someone last time!
Therefore, news abounds in various family conflicts during the epidemic.
Either the child does not do his homework, just give it a beat!
Either the child always plays games and has a meal!
Either the child plays with the parent's stuff, have a fight!
Either the parents are really bored at home, have a meal! (It seems that something is wrong! But it feels very reasonable!) Is the concept of everything
built up bit by bit? It's definitely not something that can be achieved overnight. There are conflicts between adults, let alone children? Always inspire children to use their brains and think about problems. What's wrong? Why is it wrong? How to do it right? What should we do now? Know your mistakes and you can correct them. Know your mistakes and you will change, and your wisdom will increase!
In fact, sometimes the process of reflection is the best process to open up thinking, not only for children, but also for parents. The first teacher of
children is the parents, this is not empty talk.
The words, deeds and habits of parents, and even the perspective of looking at problems, will have a huge impact on children in infants and toddlers.
What parents believe is often reflected in their every moment of behavior, rather than those actions that are specifically shown to their children. Subtly, it comes from this.
So do you believe that you can see the world at home? Do you believe that as long as you put down your phone and read more books, children will fall in love with reading? Do you believe that husband and wife are harmonious and full of love, and your children will love others and the world in the same way!
