Original|Little Bean Sprouts Parenting Notes
Before giving birth to a baby, she was still a "beautiful young girl", and after giving birth to a baby, she became a "yellow-faced woman". No matter how fashionable she is, she always feels almost anything. I sighed while holding my baby.
Comparison of women before and after giving birth, the difference visible to the naked eye
Some time ago, a group of comparison pictures before and after giving birth suddenly became popular on the Internet. If the two photos on the left and right are not the same person, you would still think that you are a mother. Female.
Before giving birth to a baby, has a very good figure, and his skin is delicate and white. After gives birth to a baby, obviously feels that his figure is out of shape, and his skin is rough and not shiny.
In addition to appearance and body, the temperament before and after the baby is completely different . Before giving birth to a baby, she was a little fairy, and she looked good no matter how she dressed. After giving birth to a baby, she felt coerced by life, and sometimes she looked lifeless.
However, such extraordinary changes are not only due to physical changes after giving birth, but also many psychological changes after becoming a mother.
The reason for the huge difference before and after giving birth
1. Body changes after giving birth
Many mothers will face body changes after giving birth to their baby , in addition to the lack of weight control during pregnancy and postpartum, there is also a part of the crazy increase in weight The reason is that after giving birth, there will be various problems in the body, such as hair loss, urine leakage and so on.
2. There is not enough time to rest after giving birth
How many mothers give all their time to the baby after giving birth, the baby is crying, and the baby is hungry, and the baby is hungry. Mom has to clean up the house.
has been like this for a long time, Bao Mom simply does not have enough time to rest , when Bao Mom lacks sleep, the skin will be rough and dull, and naturally it will be older than before the baby was born.
3. Changes in mentality
After giving birth to the baby, Mommy will completely shift the focus of her life to the baby, will surround the baby every day, and the baby's happiness, sorrow, sorrow, and baby's food and drink will affect Mommy.
is devoted to taking care of the baby's mother, and really doesn't have much time to pay attention to herself, and also ignores taking care of herself , so many mothers who have just given birth will look "sloppy" in .
Although the life of the baby has undergone earth-shaking changes after giving birth, and we are different from the inside to the outside, we have to be nice to ourselves. Don't let ourselves go further and further on the road of "Yellow Face Po".
How to get rid of the fate of the "yellow-faced woman"
1. Learn to share the hard work
After giving birth to the baby, most of the mothers will do everything about the baby by themselves. Don't worry about letting the father take the baby. Although this can take good care of the baby, in fact it will only make Bao's mother too tired if it is too hands-on, and it will also easily make the baby lose his father's love.
Therefore, Bao Mom must learn to let go and give Bao Dad more opportunities. Z1z allows Bao Dad to bring more baby . This will not only share the hardship of Bao Mom, but also increase the time the baby spends with him.
2. Don't break the jar.
Many mothers found that they were out of shape, so they began to let themselves eat and drink, and the jar broke and fell. In fact, many changes after Bao Ma gave birth to a baby can be changed. If you really let it go, in addition to getting worse and worse, it will also have a bad impact on Bao Ma's future life.
So after giving birth to a baby, Bao's mother will not be discouraged because of the temporary changes in her body . We can exercise more, control our diet, and believe that the body will recover quickly.
3. Become the real self
How many mothers have forgotten who they are since they have a baby, whether it is their own career or their own preferences, it is easy to lose themselves.
Although the baby needs the care of her mother, , she also needs her time . Only in this way can Mommy take care of herself and take care of herself better.
Little bean sprouts have something to say
After seeing this group of pictures, I believe that many mothers feel the same way, and there should be people who can feel the difficulty of mothers. Therefore, we must be kind to every mother around us, don't talk about how easy it is to have a baby, mothers really need the care and understanding of others.
Today’s topic: Is there a big difference before and after your baby?
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