today is the "Reading Manual" from my true parents.
There is an old saying that " is inferior, only reading is high ". Our society has always believed that reading is a good thing, and parents also hope that their children will love reading.
In the past, parents may only be nagging about their children. For example, my parents, when they saw my brother playing games at home, always said the last sentence " games less RBI, and more books ".
is now in good condition. When the child is very young, parents consciously read a lot of books with them, especially the picture book .
Before giving birth, I thought that cultivating a child's reading habit is to show him all kinds of picture books.
I feel so warm when I think of the picture of my mother hugging her baby and telling stories.
But after reading this book, I have a new understanding of children's reading. The real reading of
is self-reading
Open the cover of the book, the first page is printed with this sentence written by the author:
The real reading is self-reading, there are four main characteristics:
"I read" : I am independent , Read freely;
"I want to read" : very happy to read, no need for others to drive or supervise;
"I can read" : can choose reading materials, control the reading process, can read a variety of types of materials;
"I continue to read" : able to carry out reading activities for a relatively long period of time and benefit from it for a long time. The author of
believes that cultivating reading ability is to help children gradually become mature readers with the above four points.
As for how to cultivate, it’s not enough for my parents to "move their mouths but not their hands", but if you read one book after another, you might not be as good as .
Parent-child reading is a "parent-child activity", but not reading
Starting from the definition of "self-reading", the author lists some common "misunderstandings" in cultivating reading habits:
parent-child reading is not reading
referring to reading is not reading
Reading aloud is not reading
Independent reading is not something that requires "persistence"
and parents start from "learning well for children" and insist on accompany their children to do homework, but they often accompany children with poor willingness and ability to learn. Reading starts with cultivating children's reading ability and reading habits, but often produces children who can't read at all.
When a child is young, it is very warm to take him to read together.
But when the child is older, he still needs parents to accompany him to read. If does not accompany him, he will not be able to read , which may not be what we want to see.
The child may have listened to a lot of books and learned a lot of stories, but he has not learned to read, and even his willingness to read has not been formed.
I was enthusiastic about reading picture books with my kids, so I braked a car here. According to the author’s suggestion, I made two bookshelves for the child, one in the play area in the living room, next to my bookshelf, and the other in the play area in the bedroom, both of which he could easily get. At the bottom right corner of
, in the upper middle of the bookcase
in the play area of the living room, and the bookcase
in the bedroom, it is best to start to help children get in touch with and familiarize themselves with books within 1 year old, so that children can pick up the books at any time and read them at will Books become a part of children's daily life like toys.
My child showed interest in books after more than ten months. Before that, he just took and lost books. Now they often go to the book to read, point to the animals in the book and call out "cats" and "dogs", and they will make "wow" when they turn to new things.
In addition to daily reading by himself, we also have parent-child reading together, because the child is still young, and I really enjoy taking him to read together.
When he plays, I will read books to "show him a demonstration" and always remember that "examples are more than words".
is not deliberately "demonstration", I also like to read
. We are just one year old. There is still a long way to go to cultivate reading habits. I hope he can become a book lover in the end.
all stagesReading recommendation
The author gives reading recommendations for children at all stages in the book, how to help children enjoy reading, how to help children develop reading skills, practicality is quite strong, I even use it as a reference book.
Here are some notes from the chapter of "Children's Reading Activities Before 3 Years Old" (my friends are all about this age):
️ Let your children get in touch with books as early as possible, and you can use them for fun;
️ 3-6 Month, cloth book, shower book;
️ 7-12 months, can sit and climb, can see big card or cardboard book at home anytime and anywhere, and explain the content of the card and book to the child when he asks ; Z1z
️ treat books as toys;
️ babies who are 1 year old and a little more than 1 year old still don’t understand the story;
️ babies under 1 year old don’t spend more than 15 seconds to concentrate, and 1 and a half year old babies are interested Things can focus on things for more than 5 minutes, 2 years old on average 7 minutes, 3 years old 9 minutes, 4 years old 12 minutes, 5 years old 14 minutes;
️ 1-2 years old, cardboard books, simple story picture books, or let children look at them at will, Explain for him when he asks;
️ 2-3 years old, story picture book, simple encyclopedia knowledge picture book, simple cartoon comic book;
️ 3 years old and above, according to the child's reading development level, introduce rich reading materials.
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To put it in a sensational way, the purpose of many love in the world is to get together, and this one is for parting.
The process of raising children is to keep letting go.
No matter in life, or in learning and reading, he will eventually grow up to be an independent person, free to decide how to spend his time, and have the ability to do what he wants to do.
But what kind of child will grow up in the end, whether he will fall in love with reading, to be honest, we have no control.
is a parent, doing what we can do, and giving the child full love is enough.
body anxiety? Parenting anxiety?
all go away!
Happy fitness, happy raising baby!
