Since the baby was born, everyone in the family has focused on the baby. I believe this is a change that all parents will have. After all, there is a new life in the family, and everything will change accordingly.
So what happened? After adding supplementary food to the baby, parents will find that their baby seems not as well-behaved as before, and they always like to throw away the things they just handed him, which is very annoying.
Youbao’s mother said that when her baby starts to eat complementary food every day, he has the problem of throwing the things just handed on the ground. Parents should not think that this is a bad habit of the baby.
In fact, there is a deep meaning behind this action, parents should pay attention to it.
例
Qianqian’s baby is only six months old this year, and supplementary food has already been added at this time, but what bothers her most is not how much supplementary food she eats, but every time she eats At the time, no matter what the baby holds in his hand, he likes to throw it away.
No matter it is a spoon, a bowl, or a toy, everything will be thrown away, even food will be thrown away, leaving nothing.
Qianqian became angry with the baby directly, and told the baby not to throw it anymore, and she would teach him to throw it again.
But it seems that it is really useless for the baby. The baby still throws things. After throwing it, she will pay attention to whether her mother picks it up for herself. Qianqian does this to the baby. I'm really crazy, why is this?
Analysis
Babies like to throw objects. What kind of psychology is this out of? In fact, this is the baby's development to a certain stage. As his self-cognition changes, will exercise his spatial perception by throwing things.
In many cases, babies only use perceptions to determine their perception of space. In the final analysis, babies are not throwing objects casually, but are affected by the law of development in their hearts, and parents want Respect the law of development and provide guidance.
Understand why babies throw things? Parents can take advantage of this to provide early education to their children. So, how can we make use of the little thing of the baby throwing objects to help the child teach early and grow up happily?
How to make children grow up happily
1.Meet the baby’s communication needs
The famous neuroscientist Sarah Lloyd Fox once did an experiment and the analysis was How your baby’s brain reacts to different things one week after birth. For example, the baby will react differently when seeing human faces and mechanical toys.
The research shows that when the baby sees a human face, his brain becomes more active, indicating that he will have his own judgment on the outside world and will also make different reactions. It is possible that social networking has already been established in the early stages.
2. Interact more with the baby
At this time, the baby often throws things to arouse the facial expressions of the parents (happy or angry), in order to successfully arouse the parents’ attention. In fact, it is more about expressing their social needs and wanting to interact more with their parents.
Therefore, parents at this time must not be anxious, interact with the baby more, or play games, which will help the baby's healthy and happy growth. Blindly blame and anger can not solve the problem.
Pay attention to the method of contact with the baby
1. Help the baby establish "objective permanence"
After a period of time, Parents will find that the location of items at home is changed, for example, from the table to the floorThe distance between them will allow the baby to slowly understand the permanence of the existence of objects, which is also an important node for the baby’s early development.
Families with conditions can play hide-and-seek games with their babies. Not only can they train their babies to establish "objective and permanent", can also help babies increase the development of short-term memory and enhance the relationship between babies and their parents. feeling.
2. Assist the baby to improve the spatial perception
I don’t know if you have discovered that the baby’s spatial perception is gradually improved with the familiarity of the surrounding things. If the ability is strong, the baby's sense of balance and sensory integration will develop better in the future.
How to exercise the baby's spatial perception ability? Throwing things can indeed improve your baby's spatial perception. For example, using small games such as sandbag throwing and building blocks to stimulate your baby's interest, so that children learn to pick up and exercise their perception of the upper and lower spaces.
[Mother’s message]
Early education is very necessary for the baby, and it will even affect the child’s life. Don’t look at the comparison of throwing things. Simple, but it hides the focus of early education, parents must pay attention.
Do not ignore these little actions of children. If you don't pay attention to the education of your children, it is easy to weaken the parent-child relationship.
With more understanding and more initiative, everyone will understand the true meaning of early education and help parents and babies grow up happily and healthily.
[Today's Topic]
Does your family also have babies who like to throw things?
