Why is it said that it is easier to give birth than to take care of children?
We often see that all mothers are fat and strong before giving birth. Except for the "seven or eight pounds" in the belly, their personal figures are not weak. However, once the child is born, it will not take long for them to become skinny. Why has
changed so much?
Only mothers have the most say in this matter: It is easier to give birth to a child than to take care of the child.
Because the baby is young and young, it requires a lot of energy from the mother and father to take care of it. It is common to have sleepless nights and black and white. When the body's biological clock is disordered, the baby cannot eat well and sleep well, resulting in a skeletal shape and an abnormal shape.
Originally this was a necessary journey in life, but some parents don’t know what kind of mentality they have. They care about the birth but not the upbringing. They treat their babies roughly and do shocking things if they are not satisfied at all.
Angrily knocking the child when he was disturbed while playing with his mobile phone
In Dezhou, Shandong Province, where the incident occurred, netizens revealed a video showing a man lying on the bed comfortably playing with his mobile phone late at night. Suddenly, a loud cry of a baby came from next to him. The man quickly put down his mobile phone and crawled towards the baby.
At first glance at the man's reaction, he thought it was the father who couldn't bear the mother being woken up by the baby, so he rushed over to comfort the child as soon as possible.
Who would have expected that he would see this scene next:
I saw the man holding the baby to his side, and without saying a word, slapped the baby on the butt. Then he picked up the baby and threw it hard, causing the baby to fall heavily on the bed. He looked so casually, as if he was throwing a toy, which made people speechless.
The man's rough behavior not only failed to stop the baby from crying, but instead cried louder and louder. What the man did next was even more surprising.
Choking his neck and covering his head, is he the stepfather?
When the man saw that his behavior failed to stop the baby from crying, he actually grabbed the quilt nearby and covered the baby's head and face, trying to make the baby "obedient" so that he could play with his mobile phone in peace.
But the baby was too young to understand his father's painstaking efforts and continued to cry. At this time, the man suddenly did something unexpected:
he grabbed the quilt and put it on the baby's neck, and pinched the baby's neck, like a chicken.
Fortunately, it was soon released again.
Fortunately, this was the man's behavior while he was awake. It just makes people doubt whether he is the biological father of the baby. If he was asleep, the consequences would be unpredictable.
Baby mother: making a fuss, but did not sell the baby
As soon as the video was uploaded, it quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens. While condemning the man's rough treatment of the baby, some netizens even hoped that the new crown would take him away because he was not worthy of being a human being.
Some netizens commented that some fathers hug and comfort their children when they cry a little, but some people just want to be comfortable and are cruel to their children. Such people should not marry and have children because they are too selfish.
What is unexpected is that when all netizens unanimously condemned the man, a woman who said she was the child's biological mother stood up to defend her husband:
What are you making such a fuss about? Whose child was not beaten by his father when he was a child? I know better than you how he treats his children. At least he didn't sell his children, right? Why don't you go to the Internet to expose people who sold their children?
The woman's behavior in defending her husband left netizens speechless, and they all expressed their disbelief. They still have time to complain about the child being treated like this and not looking for her husband. It's really a pot that goes with the lid, but it's just pitiful for the child.
There is an old saying, you don’t have to love, but please don’t hurt. If you don’t like your child, please don’t give birth to him. Since you have chosen to give birth, you must fulfill your responsibilities. No matter what your reasons are, it cannot be an excuse for you to wantonly harm your baby.
What's more, you are just playing with your mobile phone, not to mention that I just want you to play with your mobile phone for a while. What's the point of losing your temper? As a father, you cannot take good care of your children when they are young. When you are old, be careful about him shutting down your oxygen bottle .
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