Some people say that children born in ordinary families are destined to bring their own self-produced when they grow up. Because without strong family financial support, many of the children's requirements cannot be met. Compared with children of the same age, their have worse conversation and knowledge .
Actually, I don’t agree with this point of view. Regarding children's conversation and insight, I think the parents' has a greater impact on teaching by words, family atmosphere, and parental concepts. I have to admit that in the economy and society, it is indeed easy for rich people to raise children. After all, you don’t know how to do it. You can spend money to ask someone to help you! But if the children in ordinary families have children, as long as the parents are willing to spend time , the children can still grow up in a loving environment.
Let’s talk about real examples around me! My distant cousin and my cousin’s wife are both self-employed owners, and their income is unstable, especially due to the impact of masks in the past two years, the economic conditions are relatively severe.
In the words of my cousin, you have to be careful when you have three meals a day, and you really don’t have the ability to buy all kinds of luxury goods. But under this condition, they spent more time on my cousin than before. Therefore, although the family's financial conditions are worse than that of children of the same age, he is not affected at all. He is lively and cheerful, and has a polite conversation.
Once chatting with my cousin and my cousin’s wife, I asked them a lot of experience. The method is indeed very amazing and has strong reference . The following is the key points of my summary of the information. We strongly recommend that parents and parents from ordinary families save it.
outdoor outings that cost less, take more time to arrange
In the past two years, my cousin and his cousin's wife have not had a good business, so they have more free time. The optimistic couple simply spend this free time with their children.
The rise of camping craze has made my cousin and sister-in-law take care of the fashion. In order to spend less money, choose the location of , which is located near your home. , and prepare the ingredients in advance .
Cousin said: Taking children with them to go out to play and always stay at home are two different things. Although they are not far away, the feelings and experiences of children changing environments are different. Outdoor activities, let children breathe fresh air, look at the blue sky and white clouds, observe the natural climate, plants, animals, etc. , or intersperse some activities, such as: mountain climbing competition, lawn football, looking for plants, wild fishing , etc., the children still gain a lot.
My cousin said: Actually, I didn’t spend much money, I just changed the dining table and ate outdoors. The child felt it was very fresh, and was also very happy to play.
Various free exhibition halls, be sure to check in
The experience summarized by my cousin and my wife. Every place has Museum, science and technology museum, libraries, art galleries, etc. Most of them are free and some are limited in receptions and will require an appointment in advance.
These exhibition halls are all indoor environments, Warm winter and cool summer . The environment is very good, so they simply regard the exhibition hall as a holy place to walk their children. must check in .
Of course, the smart cousin knows that it is not possible to check in at a glance, so do your homework in advance , such as: the source, history of an exhibition, etc., these knowledge points can arouse children's interest. The family treats it as "non-academic discussion" , talk and laugh, and you can stay in it for most of the day.
Invite the child to start a food party, happy and interesting
The cousin said it was really expensive, but it did not mean that the child’s desire was completely dissatisfied. Therefore, the smart cousin and cousin’s sister-in-law turned on the DIY mode .
They fixed held 1-2 per month, do it yourself throughout the process, and children must also participate. , do it yourself , and children are also required to participate.
My cousin said that this kind of thing is really meaningful. From buying groceries, let the children start planning and participating in it. To cook together, not only trains children's housework skills, but also cultivates their planning and organizational work in . The gains are simply too big.
As for the money spent, my cousin said that the food parties are all Frugal and frugal. Buy whatever you like, but to create the atmosphere of , the types will be more diverse, and the cost will naturally be slightly more than usual. But everyone in the family wants to eat it. is purely treated as tooth sacrifice . This part of the expense is considered daily living expenses and is not wasted.
Parent-child reading cannot be lazy. Children have broad vision and can travel online
In the past two years, masks have affected traveling outside, and economic expenses are also large, so my cousin and his cousin regard parent-child reading as a way to travel online.
Now it is very convenient to buy books, and there are many types, so their family simply set up a book fund every month, and they buy some reading books outside of textbooks every month, including , introducing local customs and geographical knowledge . Then accompany the child to read. When you meet someone who is interested in the child, the family can also search for relevant videos online and discuss it. Although it is worse than being immersive, there are still some gains in talking about it on paper.
In summary, it is the sharing of four practical experiences in raising children in ordinary families. Have you gained something from it? It is useless to just look at it but not take action. It is strongly recommended that parents and parents implement it seriously. Even if they only do two of them, their sense of happiness will increase a lot~
Of course, there are some other experiences in the process of sorting out. Friends who are interested in this are welcome to leave a message to urge for updates and discussions. We will announce it in the next issue~
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