All parents are the first time, no one is born to be a parent.
When we come into contact with our children, we are actually unfamiliar; it is like suddenly facing a strange individual, everyone doesn’t know where to start, but in the days we spend together, we will slowly find common topics.
For children, this world is unfamiliar, and he is just a piece of blank paper. So every exciting stroke on the white paper was added by parents at the beginning.
Most of the research studies reality, fathers will affect the development of gender positioning of children.
The existence of a father can enhance the child's self-esteem, financial security, and mental and physical health; if the father is absent, it will largely lead to children being more susceptible to abuse in childhood, and violent and dysfunctional behaviors will occur in adulthood.
Parents’ values and role models are very important to children, and if you scream or hit them, they will also scream and fight back. On the contrary, if you treat your children in a caring and understanding way, they give back to society these helpful behaviors, remember: children will learn from their parents’ words and deeds.
In my country, fathers are still more inclined to sons, and are often more sensitive to sons than daughters.
Fathers spend a lot of time with their sons, not their daughters.
This traditional idea is engraved in the bones, so that no matter how outstanding the daughter is, she needs to leave a way out for her son.
There are many divorced and reorganized families in today's society. Why do fathers say that they are very important for the growth of their children? In single-parent families, if they lack the participation of the parent community, it is easy for boys to become teenagers in society, but most of them are girls to give birth before marriage.
Parents can let their children learn about masculinity and femininity, roles, expectations and relationships from them.
In single-parent families, children don’t know who to learn about male, masculinity or male relationships.
In addition to mothers, daughters actually need roles like fathers to let her understand that men are like fathers;
will also be of great help to adolescence or future life. Often, many fatherly loves are due to women’s lack of fatherly care since childhood, which leads to not knowing how to judge the advantages and disadvantages of men.
Parenting is not an independent behavior. I have read many books about parenting and found that many of the contents are similar, but another point is that fathers care no less than mothers; men always put career first, but family education and the cultivation of the next generation are inseparable from fathers’ teachings.
In any family in our country, the father's right to speak is often more convincing than the mother's.
