Parental guidance is a parenting program that is popular in Australia, and it has good reasons. Today's show host, mother of two, Alison Landon, and parenting expert Dr. Justin Coulson, show us dozens of ways children of this era are raised.
In the past month, Alison and Justin have been very different from 10 pairs of brave parents .
From tiger parents to helicopter parents, conventional, free range, extreme and authoritarian, these parents will test their values and techniques through various challenges to find the best way.
Nature Education
"In today's society, this is a strange concept. focuses on undisturbed natural evolution and the development of children-in nature. Their educational experiences and lifestyles are self-guided."
Intimate Parenting Method
"It's about parents and children being as close as possible physically and emotionally. Intimate parenting is usually suitable for infants and young children.
" Anyone who implements intimate parenting needs to figure out when they will transition to a parenting method that recognizes the growth of children. "
French education
" French parenting is like this let adults live their adult life while encouraging children to be children, but not interfering with adult life.
"The expectation for children is that if they want to intervene, they need to do it in a mature way, respect adults and live a life. French parents encourage their children to be independent and encourage them to have high expectations."
Helicopter parents
She said: "Some parents intervene with the best intentions and save their children from difficulties. Helicopter parents do not want their children to suffer at all.
"Helicopter parents hover and intervene in their children's lives in ways that are not conducive to their children's growth. They do what they can and should do for their children, especially outside the family. "
Strict tutoring
These parents are concerned with Clear rules, boundaries and consequences for their children. They also want their children to be disciplined. The benefits of disciplined children are actually very simple: when there is structure and clear expectations, children will thrive. Another benefit of disciplined children is to let children know that behavior has consequences.
" The way of disciplined children will cause problems. When children grow up, they start to become cunning and find ways to bypass the rules. Children disciplined parents may hear, ‘Either listen to me or go my way’ and choose to go my way. "
Tiger Parenting
" Tiger education is an exception. To be different, you have to work hard and practice constantly. This means that anything that could be interesting, possibly outside of a clear, goal-oriented activity is a waste of time. "
Free Range Parenting
" It's about trusting your children and giving them the skills to discover their limits. This is a counterattack against anxious, risk-averse parenting methods; against spoiled, helicopter-style parenting methods that make sure everything is OK, many of us are victims of this parenting method. "
Regular education
" The parenting method that follows the rules is structure and rules. It improves efficiency. You accomplished a lot. Everything has its place, everything has its place. But this puts high demands on leaders. Too much focus on routines kills creativity, connection, and fun.”
Nowadays, many parents are confused about how to educate their children. What methods will you use to teach them?
