@Hallo小兔: I don't regret that I didn't have a second child. Now I have a son who is very satisfied. My son is 7 years old. I am not patriarchal, but I prefer girls.
started with the little rabbits family. They had a son after all the hardships, and they did not continue to have a second child. Although the family has been insisting on having another child, they are striving to make up a son and daughter with good characters. But Xiaotu doesn't want it. Although she likes a daughter, she just doesn't want to have another one. It is also hard to have children and raise children.
This is a family that has never had a second child but never regrets. Having a child is not a free product. So why bother to exhaust your body to give birth? Isn't it boring to be idle?
Xiaotu also chatted with me before that even his parents can't support himself now, and he is afraid that if he has a second child, he will be even more unable to support himself, and it will affect his son's mood. It's better not to have one more. Life is carefree. Although children grow up and have their own lives, they often don't come home at night.
But the life of the two of me and my husband is fulfilled, and there is no need to circle around the child all day. If she could choose again, she would still not choose to have a second child.
@铁蛋: I regret it anyway. Z1z
Tiedan and her husband are born in the 90s. At that time, the two had a child when they were just married. As a result, when the child was one year old, another question suddenly came to "Should I have a second child?" To be honest, Tiedan never thought about whether to have a second child, and she never thought that the second child would be pushed so tightly. She felt that she was not mentally prepared. The most important thing was that she didn't want to go through October pregnancy and C-section delivery. After
, the family also understood her quite well, and did not continue to give birth. After Tiedan was busy with his career, he never planned to enter the second child. As a result, when Dabao started to get married and have grandchildren, Tiedan regretted it. She had never thought that her children would grow up so soon, so she would soon be away from them to live a life of her own.
is now empty every day at home, very deserted, and no one can see it when she comes home from work for a day, and even her husband is not willing to go home. At this time, she regrets not having a second child.
If I say regret, it must be quite regretful, because I don't have a daughter in my life, and I have no chance to buy some beautiful clothes. I am especially envious of families with daughters and dress their babies beautifully. If there is a choice, she thinks she will have a second child.
@贾小尽: I regretted my second child.
Xiaojia’s family is an only child. After the two gave birth to their first child, they found that they were not divided enough. The mother-in-law took one day for her grandmother. The elderly from the two families counted the days every day to see when the grandson could come to their home. The couple looked very sad, and quietly asked for a second child. As a result, the problem also came!
She said: I thought that after giving birth to a second child, I would be able to bring one to my mother-in-law's family and one to my grandmother's family. It just so happened that the two families were equally divided. Who knows, but because of the arrival of this second child, the family that was otherwise satisfied suddenly became a mess. At the beginning, because of the persuasion of the visitors, I felt that having a second child would allow the eldest son to have a company.
But the result is that the second child is born, and the family is still rushing to take the big treasure, which means that no one wants to take care of the second child, and they feel that the child is small and stressful, and it is exhausting to bring it. This is all right, Xiaojia deliberately resigned in order to take care of Erbao, and the financial burden of the family has become the husband's alone, and the quality of life has been greatly reduced. If she can choose, she is determined not to have a second child. She regrets the second child.
