With the relaxation of the national family planning policy , many families with conditions choose second and third children. Today I share with you five things to pay attention to in families with more children, especially the last one. Don’t do it:
First, with more children, there will be comparisons. The eldest does well and the second does poorly. Some parents say, what is your brother? Can you learn like your brother? Here, Bao Dad advises parents not to do this and never compare two children. Their age, personality, and hobbies are different and there is no comparison. If this happens, it is easier to hurt the child, especially the criticized party.
Second, two children snatch things, don’t let the boss give in to the second, saying that the brother wants to give in to the younger brother, the eldest is also a child, and it also needs protection. The younger brother is not a privilege.
Third, two children fight, adults should not rush to intervene, let them solve the problem by themselves first. This is the best opportunity for children to learn to communicate, cooperate and solve problems.
Fourth, never criticize another child in front of one child. Children should also be shameless and protect their self-esteem.
The last point is, don’t be obsessed with serving the water equally. Every child is different. As parents, we should spend more time understanding them and give unique companionship and care according to different needs.
