#Parents’ Questions and Answers#Hello, I am Meimei, click on the “Follow” in the upper right and continue to share [Parenting + Driving Information] + [Reading Sharing] Will mothers explode on the spot in order to talk about one more picture book? I can. These days, Xiaomaobao ha

Will mothers explode on the spot in order to tell more picture book? I can.

These days, Xiaomaobao has become obsessed with the " Different Carmela " series of picture books. It takes more than 20 minutes to finish a picture book.

Because the time before going to bed is tight, I can only match it with a picture book with short content.

Otherwise, it will inevitably cause a chain reaction: the little guy becomes more and more energetic as he listens, he can't sleep at night, he can't get up in the morning, and everyone is late...

At night, Xiaomaobao chose two picture books "Different Carmela: I Love the Pan" and "Bitty, Sweet".

Usually, I and my father talk to each other and then turn off the lights to go to bed. I went to bed late last night because I applied a facial mask, and both books were told by my father.

Just after the picture book was finished, the lights were turned off, and the little meat bun was not happy.

He asked to turn on the light and talk about another book.

Dad reminded him that he had agreed before and went to bed after two books! Follow the rules!

As a result, he didn't listen and started to hum and shake my arm to let me turn on the light, but I didn't agree.

(At least, at present, I think my father and I have the same view: we cannot compromise because of cheating on the small meat bag, otherwise he will become more serious next time. [Slap in the face])

I told him, We are little men, we should do what we say. is now 21:40, and it is already 10 minutes later than usual.

Then another solution is provided: you can close your eyes and listen to your mother tell you a little story with her mouth.

The little guy who was still angry didn't listen at all, and continued to hum and play tricks, kicking and kicking around. In this case, I will choose to deal with it coldly, and then I will make sense after he has enough trouble.

After more than ten minutes of tug-of-war, the father who pretended to be asleep broke the defense line with one sentence: Let’s talk about another book, as the time of trouble has already finished talking about a picture book!

Little meat bun Hearing his father was talking to him, he became even more violent and began to perform heartbrokenly.

Unexpectedly, after persisting for a long time, he was broken by a word from his teammates! It’s no point to persevere!

I could only hold my breath and turn on the lights again, and talked about "Bitty, Sweet" again. During this period, the little meat dumpling slowly calmed down.

Surprisingly, after the picture book was finished, he lay down obediently and told me that he could turn off the lights and go to bed. The action of

was really unexpected! [Cover your face]

After falling asleep, my father said: The little meat bun is used to each of us to tell you one book, you didn’t tell it tonight, so he cheated.

After hearing this, I felt something was right and my anger disappeared.

Lying in the bed, I began to reflect, because my fault tolerance for small meat buns is zero, so he is like a tight string, urgently needing to be relaxed, and noise became his vent.

Think back to the behavior of Xiaomaobao for a day: It was traced back to the time of supper, Xiaomaobao was educated by me because he didn't have a good meal. He was a little depressed at the time but soon forgot about it. I suffered another setback at night.

Because his current language ability is not well developed, he will not express his demands. The accumulated emotions cannot find the release port. We can only attract our attention by cheating to achieve our goals.

I can’t imagine that if he was in kindergarten during the day, he would have been criticized by the teacher. When I got home, I was educated again. That's really miserable!

If you continue to do this, you will have no self-esteem, no confidence... and various problems will follow one after another. It's terrible to think about it carefully!

Think about it, you want to stick to self-discipline, but there are occasional times when you lie flat. This is true for adults, and so is children. It can be seen how important a relaxed atmosphere is to children.

Children who grew up in a relaxed family dare to take responsibility, have confidence and ability to resist risks.

So, how should parents create a relaxed family?

. Do your own emotional management;

. Get rid of the original concept of domestic violence education and change your own parenting concept;

If you find it difficult, you might as well recite it repeatedly in your heart: My biological son, he is still young.

At the same time, teach children to face errors, find methods, and accumulate experience.

Finally, I hope every child can grow up happily in a relaxed family.

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