01
"Sister, please advise mom and ask her to come over quickly. Xiaoya will give birth in another month. Her mother will sprain her ankle and can't come." During lunch, I received a call from my brother.
I rush to my parents' house without even washing the bowl.
When he arrived at the door, he saw General Tie keeping the door, and this old lady Li must have gone to the vegetable field.
As expected, she digs winter radish in the field. I walked over, took the radish in her hand, shook the soil on it, twisted the radish cherry tree, and threw it into the bamboo basket next to her.
Old Mrs. Li looked up at me and said, "Are you here to persuade me to go to your brother's house? I told him not to go, it is useless to persuade me."
Why don't you go?
"His wife doesn't like me. Now her mother can't go, so she remembers me again. If you have the ability, they hired month nanny to go. I still want to take my dishes."
"What kind of dishes are you taking? Your daughter-in-law has a stomachache at night. The doctor said there is a problem, maybe your grandson can't save it." I deliberately scared Old Mrs. Li.
When she heard this, she was anxious, threw down the shovel, ran to the east to find my dad, and said, "Old man, I want to go to the city quickly, otherwise our eldest grandson will not be able to save it. Take those carrots and cherry trees home and chop them for the chickens..." After she finished her nagging, she ran home.
Old lady Li came back and washed her hair and exchanged her for clean clothes. Carrying the things I had prepared for the baby that was about to be born, I took the last bus to my younger brother's house.
Look, this is the case with the elderly, and the mention of grandson is their weakness.
02
Send my mother away. On the way home, I muttered a little in my heart, wondering if she could forget the unhappiness she had before after she went and get along well with her sister-in-law.
I remember that during the Spring Festival this year, my sister-in-law Xiaoya came back, and my mother also took the initiative to say that she would go to take care of her two months before her due date.
Result Xiaoya said that she still asked her mother to go over to serve her during her confinement period, saying that my mother had a vegetable field at home and was busy at that time. And her mother was alone and contracted the land to others to plant it, so she was a little more leisurely.
I think what people said is fine, but my mother was unhappy and felt that her sister-in-law disliked her for not serving her well, so she insisted on her own mother going over.
I think Xiaoya should feel that she will be more comfortable in front of her own mother. This is understandable.
When I gave birth, I asked my mother to go over to serve her. She had a little temper in front of her, and her biological mother didn't care about it.
I hope that Old Lady Li can control her mouth after she goes and don’t nag about the past.
When I approached the house, I met Xiaoya's younger brother. He was a policeman and was very busy at work, and his mother sprained her ankle again. He wanted to pick up his mother and live at home, but his wife disagreed.
A few trips a day, he was almost worried.
Everyone in our village knows that Xiaoya’s younger brother climbed a high branch, and even the building in the city was bought by the woman’s house. This daughter-in-law looked down on the rural mother-in-law at all. It is rare to come back during the Spring Festival, and she insisted on making things agitated.
Xiaoya couldn't stand it and said something to her mother, so she offended her sister-in-law and stopped interacting in private.
Seeing that Xiaoya's younger brother was so worried, I said, let him go to work well during the day, I will help take care of his mother, and he will try to come back early tonight. His mother is also pitiful. The old man passed away two years ago and now lives alone.
After hearing this, Xiaoya's younger brother said a lot of words of thanks to me. And I think everyone is a relative, so if you can, just help.
03
I went to see Xiaoya's mother. She was just a person who couldn't rest. Her foot was injured and she was still doing needlework in her hands. Make a pair of tiger-head shoes for your future grandson. According to our local custom, children will be very brave after wearing these shoes, which means they will be very healthy.
I chatted with her for a while and then went back. Later, I went to visit her every day, prepared the meal at my house at noon, and took it to her for food.
She held my hand and said with tears in her eyes that she was blessed. She found our family and was very kind in her heart.
Kindness is what the bones of rural people are.
Xiaoya knew that I was taking care of her mother and called me and she couldn't help but cry. In addition to thanking me, she also thanked my mother.
After my mother went there, she would ask her what she likes to eat every day when cooking. My mother just found a way to satisfy her stomach.
From the afternoon, my mother accompanied her for a walk and told her some funny stories, which made her very happy.
, the night before yesterday, she had a little stomachache and was admitted to the hospital. She asked my mother to go back to rest during the day. But Old Lady Li just refused to leave and said that she had a heavy responsibility. She would not leave until she was born.
Look at the girl on the hospital bed next to her. The mother-in-law occasionally comes over and even slapped her face, saying that she doesn't pay attention and wants to protect her fetus now. Not to mention the money, it may also affect the child's development.
The girl can only cry silently.
Old Mrs. Li also comforted the girl with warmth and warmth, bring more nutritious porridge she made and give it to the girl for drink.
Xiaoya praises her mother-in-law for being warm and enthusiastic. She felt that she was in a blessing in the past and did not know how to be blessed, but now she really felt that having a good mother-in-law was a very happy thing.
04
A few days later, my mother called me to report the good news. Xiaoya gave birth to a girl, and I am an aunt.
I took the time when my son didn't go to school on weekends, so I took a bus to the city to see Xiaoya, and gave the child a red envelope of 600 yuan, saying that this was my little intention of being an aunt.
But Xiaoya refused to accept it and said to me, "Your child is going to college in September, so leave the money for him. Sister, you and mom have a kind heart, which is priceless to me."
After hearing her words, Old Lady Li and I both smiled heartily.
When I was about to leave the hospital, Xiaoya's colleagues went to see her, and she praised me so embarrassedly. On the way out and walked to the station, a breeze blew, my face felt warm and my heart felt warm.
I think it is not difficult for my elder sister-in-law to get along with my sister-in-law. As long as I treat her sincerely and she knows how to be grateful, she can get along with each other in harmony.
After all, the few who are the kind of sister-in-law who turn their elder sister-in-law into the door and turn them off, because the majority of people who are kind and grateful are still there.
Be harmonious with the elder sister-in-law and sister-in-law, which will make parents live happier. Do you think that's the reason?
