Parents who have enrolled their children in interest classes know that the wallet is the most sad in November every year. In addition to facing the "shopping" of Double Eleven, they also have to face the risk of renewing their children's interest classes.
interest classes were afraid that we would put our money in a basket on online shopping, and also held Double Eleven activities very "concerned" with discount activities such as knocking on golden eggs, lottery, cashback, etc., which made us feel that we had a huge advantage - after paying this money, the child's artistic bacterial cells have increased a lot, and the key is that the renewal is still cheaper than usual.
Now, my daughter's dance training school places various prizes in the most conspicuous seat in the hall, and every toy is waving to the children - ask your parents to renew the fee. After the fee is renewed, you can take me home!
Obviously, my daughter sensed their call and pulled me to renew.
I rejected it.
It’s not that she is reluctant to let go of the 5,000 yuan, but I want to make sure she really likes dancing or because she wants to continue to sign up because she wants to do it.
Actually, I hesitate about whether to continue to register. I want her to continue to learn, but I don’t want her to continue to learn.
Reasons for her to continue learning:
1. I always think that girls can create a beautiful body and a good temperament when dancing in elementary school. makes up for the shortcomings of my mother not learning dance when she was a child.
2. The teacher has always praised her for being attentive in class and remembering her movements quickly, so she has always let her daughter lead the dance with another little girl. I understand that she has the talent to dance. satisfy the vanity of the old mother.
3. I think persistence in learning is a rare quality. My mother spent so much money, if you don’t learn half of it, it’s a waste of my mother’s money.
4. If a child can cultivate an artistic hobby from an early age, he can have a talent that is outstanding when he grows up. When he is bored, he also has a hobby to pass the time. When the party is held, let the daughter jump onto a paragraph, and the old mother is very close.
Reasons why she didn't want her to continue learning:
1. My daughter liked to learn dancing at first, and she looked forward to wearing a beautiful dance skirt to dance every day. However, after half a year of learning dance, she often said that she didn't want to dance anymore because it hurts when she hangs out on the "big frog" ( leg pressing ). I have inherited the hard bones of my old mother, so it will certainly hurt when I practice basic skills.
2. She said several times, "I don't like dancing, my mother must let her learn it." I don't want to take the blame anymore.
3. She would complain, "A good weekend, why do I spend half a day dancing? I want to play with my friends." Or is it still "happy" education?
I am a choice phobia patient. I was so confused that I was afraid that a wrong decision would affect my daughter's life. So I had an idea and decided to hand over the hot choice to my daughter and let her make the decision by herself.
I grabbed my impulsive daughter and said to her, "If you want this mini kitchen toy, mom can buy it for you. Mom hopes that you want to continue studying because you like dancing and can stick with it, not because you want toys."
I saw a trace of hesitation flashing in my daughter's eyes.
I decided to give her buffering time: "We will go to the restaurant next to have lunch now. After you finish your meal, you will decide whether to continue studying, okay?"
My daughter nodded thoughtfully.
While eating, she was also talking to herself: "I like dancing, but I don't like dancing.”
I tried to guide her and let her tell her why she likes dancing and doesn’t like dancing.
The reason why my daughter likes dancing:
1. Dancing can make herself elegant Beautiful (lines in Peppa Pig ).
2. You can play with children when dancing.
3. When you learn to dance, the teacher will give her several points cards.
Reasons why my daughter doesn't like dancing:
1. When she dances wrong, the teacher will criticize her.
2. When she dances, she can only play with the children for a short time.
3. There will be a little pain in her leg pressing.
Results There are three reasons for like and dislike. It seems that she inherited my choice phobia well. She wanted to give me this choice.
I kicked the ball back again: "If you choose to continue learning to dance, your parents will support you, if you choose not to continue learning to dance, your parents will support you too. "
She seemed to have a reassurance: "Then I choose to continue learning, will you support me, right? ”
I nodded: “Of course! "
The daughter said affirmatively: "Mom, I want to continue learning! "
I said, "Okay, mom supports you! Mom also believes that since you have chosen to continue learning, you will definitely persevere, right? "
The daughter said firmly with her eyes: "Yes, I will persist! "
Perhaps it was God's encouragement to her. After we renewed the fee, we won a first prize and a lucky prize.
first prize. I have lived for more than 30 years but have not won the first prize, but I was won by this 5-year-old doll.
We happily accept every one of the present Personal congratulations.
First prize is a steam and roasting machine worth 1,000 yuan, and the home can come in handy.
Lucky prize is the mini kitchen toy that my daughter is thinking about (it can really be used to cook).
But she wants to win the first prize and exchange for the third prize because the third prize It's also a mini kitchen, and the kitchen utensils are more complete.
I seriously suspect that she chose to continue learning because of the temptation of toys.
But what does this matter? She thought about it herself and made this decision herself. That's enough. Don't want me to take the blame in the future.
can make up her own ideas since she was a child. Children may not be very good, but they will definitely not be much worse, right?
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