Problem
Xiao Ming's father is a hardworking worker, busy at home and abroad. My mother is a bank employee and is very busy. Parents always clean up their children, and they grow up day by day, taking advantage of the clever directors in kindergarten. The couple was very happy to get married, but as soon as they went to elementary school, their parents had differences in education. They always wanted their children to become successful and their daughters to become popular. Gradually, parents discovered that their children had more and more minor problems. They always procrastinate when doing homework and always write less. They said they didn’t know, but when they asked what was wrong? He immediately knew where he was wrong, but he just didn't take it seriously. His test scores slowly slipped backwards. His parents were invited to school several times because they did not complete their homework. His parents asked what was wrong with his children. The teacher said that the child is very smart, but he just makes some small moves in class and is not serious. You must correct your child’s learning attitude. So parents always ask their children to write their words a few times. When they were in school, their parents told them to unite with their classmates and complete their homework seriously. The child performed very seriously, but his grades were still going downhill. Because he had less sleep and was not focused enough, he was listless in everything he did. When I got home watching TV, I went back to the cleverness of playing games. The baby is obviously different from when he was a child. There is only one baby in the family, how can I get the baby?
At this time, parents should pay attention, and research has proved that this child may have learning disabilities. This concept was not proposed by educators, but by pediatricians.
Learning disability refers to the phenomenon of obvious backwardness in the application and acquisition of listening, speaking, reading, writing, computing, and communication, and not matching the IQ.
performance:
The baby's intelligence is normal or outstanding, but it is not suitable for learning (listening, speaking, reading, calculation, etc.). For example, Xiao Ming listens, speaks, reads, writes, and calculates very well, but he just can't remember the words, recognizes 6 as 9, or can't distinguish between hou and hou. It's not one or two words, but a kind of character. This is not that the kids are bullied by campus or that the teacher is not well taught. Xiao Ming has a good relationship with his classmates, his average grades in the class are very high, and the teacher also cares about Xiao Ming.
Cause analysis
Psychologists found that learning disabilities are caused by differences in the central nervous system of the brain. Learning disabilities are not something you can see on the outside. As we all know, the brain is divided into many regions. Some people have very good left brains, and their reading ability is very good. They can learn languages (English and Chinese). But the right brain may not be good. The right brain is responsible for spatial thinking, responsible for spatial processing and abstract thinking. Students with particularly good right brain have great advantages in logarithmic science. Therefore, those who have advantages in language learning will especially like to learn Chinese and English, while those who have strong mathematical reasoning and computing capabilities like to learn mathematics, chemistry, and physics. Over time, a habit and interest will be formed in experience.
Dragon gave birth to nine sons , each with different
, and some people have excellent brains and very high IQ, but they have problems with their frontal lobes, and their frontal lobes are responsible for attention, which causes attention disorders, or ADHD. If there is a problem with the brain area that controls fine movements, or perceptual, auditory, or visual perception, , the brain area will have problems (development lag), and writing problems will occur, and writing will be difficult.
Solution: There is a difference that is natural
Individual differences are caused by differences in the brain. There is nothing mysterious, it is normal. Parents will improve their supplements under the guidance of a doctor, but it is not the way Xiao Ming’s parents and teachers handle it based on experience. Don’t just blame your children, be tolerant of their shortcomings, change them in time and appropriately, and everything will be fine!
The famous scientist in history Einstein had a language barrier when he was in elementary school, but it did not affect his becoming the greatest scientist. Former US President George W. Bush had a mathematical logic learning disability when he was young, which did not affect his later becoming president.
Every flower is different, wait for it to bloom
In short, parents communicate more with their children and observe more, so that their children can grow up healthily in a loving and inclusive environment.
