I understand you will come, so I wait for
Author / Gangguma
st row version / Gangguma
st page number / 1358 words
reading time / 4 Minutes
Tuesday and Thursday are the days when the North and South Pier Food Supermarket at the door are discounted and promotional, and it is also the day when children are allowed to shop freely during the big test.
The idea of this rise is because children will restless during exams, walk back and forth between the living room and bedroom, and even feel nervous and unable to sleep. No matter how much I comfort them, it will be useless.
Finally, it was also a coincidence that I entered the supermarket, bought the thing I like, and walked out of the door with a bag of things, my nervousness suddenly eased.
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Limited amount, no limit on the type, buy at will, but store it well on the day of buying it, and you can only enjoy it until you finish the exam.
There are also 3 of your own selfishness.
The first is - the amount , the limit is 20. Even if you buy junk food, it is only 20. If you break it, you can't find many tricks. Besides, they all have qualified products produced by regular manufacturers, and eating occasionally is not harmful.
It is not an easy thing to buy the right item with so much money. The abilities required are computing power, overall planning ability, and communication skills with people.
also teaches children invisibly that they must learn to choose anything in life.
Don’t underestimate these things. Children nowadays get too much and will ignore everything they already have. This is the best time to exercise them.
The second is - no limit on the types, buy at will, this should be my biggest scheming.
This is equivalent to giving the initiative to the child. He can buy snacks that he usually does not allow. This excitement is no less than the excitement of us who are just starting out when we get our first salary.
And this excitement is undoubtedly a good hedging with tension, and it also well diverts the anxiety of children's nowhere to be placed. Taking the exam with a sense of control over life should also increase the confidence in the exam!
The third one - I bought it that day and didn’t eat it, so I kept it for the exam, and enjoy . This is also a kind of delay satisfying , and it is also a kind of compensation for the exam.
No matter what your mood is during the exam, there are always snacks you choose that are waiting for you, which also brings a little unspeakable favor to the exam.
After all, this is to cultivate children's immune response to exam anxiety. When taking the exam, the first thing that comes to mind is not nervousness, but the pleasant experience brought by purchasing snacks on your own.
I think this will have a different impact on your future life.
This time, because my father was hospitalized, he had no time to arrange such a link. After the exam, the child still reminded me friendly to make up for it.
knowingly, he felt deeply guilty about his recent neglect, and immediately expressed his intention to make up for it immediately.
The child also told him about his progress this time - he won the first place in the class, and all this was done by himself without my advice. When I think of this, my mother is sincerely happy.
Obviously, the nervousness before the exam seemed to be digested by him little by little.
The shopping at that time was to satisfy his inner emotional needs. It’s okay to have a sense of control or a reward. In short, all this is a matter of peace of mind.
We always hope that children will live their lives the way we want, but we don’t know that we can’t accompany them for a long time, so teaching them some ways to deal with the wind and rain is the fundamental.
For example, you can also try this method to deal with tension.
Just as Long Yingtai said:
Some things can only be done by one person,
have some difficulties, only one person can pass by one person,
have some roads can only walk by one person.
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