I saw a very heartbreaking hot news in the morning:
The dean of a college in Chongqing sao disturbed a married female subordinate. After collecting evidence, the female subordinate reported that the college has dismissed the dean and terminated the contract.
As soon as this matter was released, it was hotly discussed by netizens. I looked at the comment section and talked more about the topic of being violated.
These news are angry, but news is just the tip of the iceberg. A large number of women who disturb, obscene children, and even sexual assaults occur from time to time. The perpetrator is not a stranger, but an acquaintance around him.
The female subordinate in the news knows how to collect evidence and report resistance, but what about our children? Do they know how to protect themselves?
In case of an unfortunate encounter, it may affect the child's life, so it is particularly important for parents to understand children's sex education.
However, many parents, when it comes to children's sex education issues, most of them are difficult to enable!
Regarding the problems of children's sex education , the editor believes that only by understanding "sex" from an early age and instilling sexual knowledge can we fundamentally minimize the occurrence of dangerous incidents such as being disturbed, molested, or even sexual assault by children.
Today we will discuss , several issues about early childhood sex education.
. What age should children's sex education start?
starts at the age of 0.
The sooner you educate your child about sex, the less curious about sex, thereby reducing the mistakes caused by sex, and protecting yourself well.
2. The educational content of each age group is different!
-2 years old can let children know their bodies;
-3 years old, at this time, the children have social interactions, which can let children correctly understand the differences between men and women and distinguish between different parts of the body.
4-5 years old, the child is already in kindergarten and is curious about many things. We can discuss with the child where the baby comes from;
In addition, at this stage, the child should also understand which parts of the body belong to the "private parts". It is not allowed to touch others, and do not touch others' private parts.
6-8 years old, the child is already in elementary school, and can guide the child to discuss topics such as slightly in-depth topics and how the baby is born.
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3. We should focus on educating children, what parts belong to private parts?
Parents should seize any opportunity when taking a shower or wearing clothes and tell their children that if it is a boy, the place where the underwear is covered by the private parts; if it is a girl, the place where the underwear is covered by the private parts.
After understanding private parts, you must clearly tell the child who can touch these parts?
Who can touch me? I have to tell my children about safety!
For example:
If it is a baby girl, tell her that no one else except mother, grandma, and grandma;
If it is a baby boy, tell him that no one else except father, mother, grandma, grandma, grandma, grandma, and grandma.
If someone outside the security range is touched, you must tell your parents in time! Parents must pay great attention to their children’s feedback or abnormal reactions!
4. What are the consequences of lack of sex education?
If the child does not know basic sexual knowledge, the child will not protect himself during childhood and will be more likely to be injured.
For example, the uncle next door touched his private parts just for a candy.
was molested, I don’t know how to refuse, I don’t know how to tell my parents.
Before, an 8-year-old girl was molested by a tutor for a year but was not discovered!
The little girl doesn’t know how to tell her mother, and she doesn’t dare to say it!
It was not until one time that the little girl's mother came home early after get off work and caught it.
5. Change the bad habits you think you are normal
Many parents may not realize that some common parenting behaviors are hidden sexual assaults:
show off or play with boys' genitals to others;
Wear open-crotch pants for children to expose the genitals;
Let children urinate and defecate in public places;
Take children to public bathroom/bathroom of the opposite sex...
Above behaviors are prohibited.
Because for children, they are not only a violation of privacy, but also may make children unable to distinguish the boundaries of their bodies.
Actively provide correct sex education to children is the best protection for children.
Sexual assault can occur anytime, anywhere, parents must not be lucky!
Sex education is no longer a topic of concealment, nor is it a topic of adults. We should instill the concept of sex education in our children from an early age so that children know how to protect themselves!
There will inevitably be many bumps and bumps in the growth of a child. All we can do is teach them how to protect themselves!
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