There is a naughty child in the family who will suffer from high blood pressure if he is not angry to death. People often say that those who should become talent don’t need to be pruned. Those who are not talented can exhaust you. This is true. I almost pissed last night.
My child is 11 years old this year. Before going to the sixth grade, she went to Huang Deng Primary School. She always said that the study pressure was high, and the children in the class were not friendly to her and often bullied her. She was very unhappy. In addition, the teacher assigned a lot of homework, so she didn't want to go to this school anymore.
I told her that everyone has pressure. To be a person, you must be a valuable person, a person who is useful to society, and a person who can create value is valuable. If you don’t learn without knowledge, you will have no value.
In fact, their class teacher is a very motivated person. No matter what he does, he always wants to win the first place in the whole grade. This is understandable. Who doesn’t want to be the first place to do the best?
But my child has been sensitive since childhood, sentimental, poor health, and has a little asthma , lonely and unsociable, and is anxious to talk too much, so it is more difficult to get along with people.
In addition, we parents do not understand parent-child education and do not communicate with children, which leads to children's learning becoming more and more regressive. In fact, our children are smart and have very good language organization skills. They always speak constantly and can accurately express what they want to say, but they just don't like to study and cannot be interested in learning.
, especially math, I don’t like it very much. If you want to write math with her, she will write it step by step, but she is just lazy and doesn’t want to use her brain at all.
English sounds very nice. Her tongue is soft and flexible. She pronounces English very smoothly and has a foreign flavor, but she doesn't like to study. When she does her homework, she is like she is forcing her to go to Liangshan.
. If you don’t write a single word in writing, you won’t write it as long as the number of words is enough, and you won’t write it. Regardless of whether the content of this essay is rich or not, the plot of the story is always moving. As long as you finish writing, you will be considered a matter of handing over.
In fact, she has a very rich imagination and often tells me stories she made up. The logic is also very smooth and complete. As long as she can apply these thoughts to her study, her study is very good, but this child is lazy, not only lazy in body, but also lazy in mind.
In order to relieve her pressure and to get closer to home in school (her original school is about ten kilometers away from home), in September this year, I ordered her to transfer school. It takes ten minutes to get there in the street near my current residence. The school here is in the countryside, and it is not as strict as the school management, and the children are relatively simple and friendly. I think even if you change the environment for her and ask her to start over again, it will be considered a psychological treatment! If you are not in good health, you can’t have any psychological problems.
even changed her name, completely cutting off everything from the original one. I hope she has a new beginning and new plan in this new school.
I think the school management here is a little looser and the study pressure is less. She should be more motivated, easier and more active when learning.
Who knew that this child was still an old problem. His homework was not completed on time on Saturdays and Sundays. He had to delay the homework for the two days until Sunday night before he was in a hurry to write. He wrote until eleven or twelve o'clock, and he had to accompany him to write. If he didn't accompany him, he would not write, without any initiative or self-discipline. I have to cook, clean up the house, and update my headlines after work. All of these take time!
I have been posting today's headlines on March 29 this year. From the beginning, I have increased to 2,545 fans. These are the results of my hard work. How can I let go and not do the whole process to accompany her to do her homework? Everyone has their own things every day, and doing homework is her business. If students don’t do homework or study, what else do they want to do? What else can I do?
Yesterday was Sunday again. When school was over Friday, I told her not to pile up all homework until Sunday night, but to write in advance, but yesterday, I piled all homework until Sunday night. I played during the day and ran away again. I also lied to me that I had finished my homework. After the examination, I slapped me in the face. I didn’t want to hit the child, but it was like this every week. I always had to delay until I went to bed before doing my homework.I can't figure out the questions I wrote in
anymore. I was so angry that I slapped them again. These questions were written by me before, but I didn't even think about them. I just waited for someone to remind her of the answer.
I couldn't control my emotions and started yelling at it. As I was yelling, I felt my head a little dizzy, so I quickly sat on the sofa and calmed down for a while. I thought I couldn't be so angry by this little boy. It was 11:30, and I urged her to go to bed quickly, but I couldn't sleep any more! I was so angry that I didn't go to bed until midnight at 1:30.
Alas, why are you so tired to raise a child? What's wrong with my education?
