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has a relatively common phenomenon. I believe many people with siblings will empathize, that is, siblings are not as good as when they were young when they were young. In fact, the essence can be seen through the phenomenon, which is nothing more than a few reasons.
1. There may be disputes involving the issue of supporting parents’ elderly care
, especially families with many children, whenever there is a dispute, the harmony between brothers and sisters will become a past tense. But parents will eventually grow old, and sooner or later they will face the problem of supporting their parents. How to solve their parents' pension problem so as to have no objection is a test of verifying human nature for brothers and sisters. Unless brothers and sisters can have money and work hard, no matter how much money or how much money they spend, they will not care about each other and will be more tolerant to avoid ruling, which will not make parents feel heartbroken, nor will it make brothers and sisters feel heartbroken.
2. Parents fail to treat each other equally
The older the brothers and sisters grow up, the more distant they are, it is closely related to their parents' education. Whether parents set an example or whether their parents treat them fairly is inseparable from the relationship. If parents have been favoring one over the other for decades and have been biased towards individual children for a long time, their children may let them go when they are young, and when their children grow up, they will still just live a mediocre life when they have suffered unfair treatment when they are young. However, when parents grow up, they still tend to one or more of their children. As the distribution of benefits increases and declines, as brothers and sisters become more independent and confident, they may have disputes. Since parents are the initiators, they cannot be blamed.
3. Brothers and sisters have friction
The identities of brothers and sisters will change with the change of circumstances. After the brothers and sisters get married and start a business, the brothers and sisters will fully represent the entire family behind them. Whether it is the interests of their respective families or the interests of their respective families, they will do their best to fight for them. If there is a conflict between the interests of brothers and sisters, or the interests of brothers and sisters, if handled properly, there will be no danger and then turn danger into safety; if the handling is inappropriate, even if there is no direct conflict between brothers and sisters, the conflict between brothers and sisters' families or family members will eventually become a conflict between brothers and sisters. The process of brothers and sisters advancing or retreating simultaneously with the family and family is the process of brothers and sisters advancing in a close way or retreating in an alienated way.
Conclusion: Brothers and sisters need to be prepared for danger in times of peace, so as to prevent problems before they happen. Even if there are already irreconcilable conflicts, brothers and sisters need to face them together, striving to move from easing to resolving them, and then resolving their past grudges.
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