Our family is not rich. To put it bluntly, it is an ordinary working-earning family. However, every summer vacation, I would take my children to travel, not for anything else, but for the sake of letting them go to "play".
Some people may say: Are you so "not doing your job" so that your family is barely in vain? Isn’t this reflecting on you, and you still have to bring bad kids?
In fact, it is precisely in order to allow my children to move towards a prosperous road, so I take my children out every year when the economy is not prosperous.
Still remember Professor Li Meijin once said: Even if the child cannot get into a good university, he must also have a happy childhood.
Many parents may not understand why Professor Li, an expert in child psychology, said this. Isn’t the most important task for children to go to school?
If you have watched Li Meijin's lecture, you should know that going to school is really not the only task for children, or even the top priority for children.
The primary task of a child is growth and comprehensive growth, and learning is just one of the factors of children's growth. In addition to learning, children's psychology, personality, personal ability, physical fitness, etc. need to grow.
And I take my children to travel in order to allow their children to grow comprehensively. If you ask me what I got from traveling with my children, I can’t say it all. I can only say a few representative ones because there are so many benefits.
There are many benefits to taking children to travel often, among which these 4 are the most obvious. Parents should not be lazy because their children are young
Increase children's knowledge and broaden their horizons
The amount of children's knowledge has a great relationship with travel. When my child was years old, I started to take my child to travel in the same city. Sometimes I went to the surrounding small cities for a few days, allowing my child to see many different animals, plants, events, regions, characters, and phenomena.
After each trip, I felt that the child had no changes, but when the child went to kindergarten, I found that the child's performance in kindergarten was indeed very "outstanding".
Because children have been to many places, they know a lot of things, and many things that children of the same age do not understand, and children can also say one, two, three.
And when talking about these things, the child acts naturally, giving people the feeling that he is a lively small walking encyclopedia.
Perhaps because children know a lot, many kindergarten children like to play with their children, and their popularity in kindergarten has always been very good.
But I know very well that this is the effect obtained by traveling with children. Traveling with children invisibly increases knowledge and broadens my horizons.
Help children position, so that children have a sense of purpose
When taking their children to travel, they will definitely see some more majestic things, such as Great Wall , the sea, the Forbidden City, the grasslands of Qinghai, the deserts of Xinjiang, etc.
These will make children position themselves more objectively, achieve more accurate self-awareness, understand what the world is like, what society is like, what people can do now, what they want to do when they grow up, etc. This will allow children to have long-term or short-term goals. And When a child establishes a growth goal, the child will continue to work hard for the goal .
enriches children's knowledge base and makes children knowledgeable
When traveling, we were exposed to many exotic styles and different scenes, and saw many mountains, rivers, animals and plants. The children were very curious and excited. When they saw every strange thing, they would want to know what it was.
And I also pay great attention to explaining to my children. When I encounter something I don’t know, I will carefully check the information and help my children solve their questions and answer questions in a timely manner, because I know, "After passing this village, there will be no such store." The child has learned a lot of knowledge and his own knowledge base has been greatly improved.
Improve children's personal abilities and make children become confident, self-reliant, and self-reliant
The development of the new era requires self-reliant and self-confident children, and these three can actually be obtained from travel.
When I travel with my child, I will ask the child to carry his own bag and let the child prepare the items he wants to use, thereby exercising the child's ability to take care of himself.
If I encounter any problems during travel, such as getting lost, I will let my child solve them, and after successfully dealing with some problems, I will also have strong self-confidence. At the same time, during the journey, I try my best to let my children complete some things by themselves and exercise their ability to be independent.
Simply put, as long as parents take their children to travel without overprotecting them, the children's personal abilities will be improved.
Of course, the benefits of traveling with children are not only the points mentioned above, but also many, so parents should not be lazy when they have time. They might as well take their children out for a walk, as their children will benefit a lot in the future.
. It doesn’t matter if parents really can’t take time. They can buy some related books for their children to play and read, and the children can also benefit from it.
I am also busy with work and do not have time to take my children out to play every holiday. Therefore, when I am not free, I will play this set of "Traveling China Stickers" for my children. This is a set of based on travel knowledge stickers game books. There are 7 volumes in the whole set. Each volume of describes different regions, cleverly linking geography knowledge with other knowledge , allowing children to watch, play, learn and enjoy while learning, and gain a lot of knowledge without realizing it in a positive state.
This set of books contains various knowledge of 4 regions across the country, such as province map , province fun portrait , province related ancient poems , some interesting knowledge , etc. The background of the sticker connects the various characteristics of the province together, has a very structural sense .
and some of the features are displayed in the blank . allows children to improve by stickers. When children are playing, they can not only be familiar with various local knowledge, but also exercise their concentration, hand-eye coordination ability, fine hand movements and observation skills.
So, my child is now performing very well in all aspects. He studied in the entire and was the top three in the class in elementary school, and the child has never attended cram school. In addition, I don’t need to worry about my child’s daily life anymore. I am very pleased to see the child grow up step by step.
Travel may change the child's life. "Traveling in China and Play Stickers" is also an effective help for children's growth. Here I am just sharing my parenting experience, hoping to help everyone, so that every child can become better and have the ability to pursue their ideal life.
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