Tomorrow is Double Ninth Festival, and is also a traditional Chinese festival for filial piety to the elderly.
Today the unit organized a party member activity and sent Chongyang cake to the elderly in a nursing home. A colleague quietly wiped his tears and said that his father was gone. Another colleague said with emotion that he had never returned to his hometown to see his old mother in the past few years...
Alas, a sigh, as children, we should strive to live every day into Double Ninth Festival, so that there will be less regrets in our hearts.
The following is a small summary, which does not mean that everyone can do it. I hope we all do our best.
Remember your parents’ birthday, give birthday gifts on your birthday, or say happy birthday to your parents!
You should go home often to see it. If you can’t do it, then call more than twice a week!
Take your parents regularly for a physical examination. Or urge parents to participate in the physical examination of the elderly organized by the community and pay attention to the physical examination form.
often take photos and photography for parents, especially when they bring their boyfriends and girlfriends or have a third generation, or buy them new clothes, new shoes, or important festivals, etc.
teaches parents to use ATM machines, smartphones, smart appliances, and more.
Reply to parents’ text messages seriously and don’t be irritable because of their parents’ long-winded phone calls. It’s best to keep them, or you can export or print them.
Take your parents on a trip or encourage them to travel.
Help single parents find a wife or a nanny.
often talk to your parents about your happy things and unhappy things. Ask your parents to help you come up with ideas so that they feel that they are not useless.
Food should be stewed hot and soft, and middle-aged and elderly people have weak spleen and stomach and are difficult to digest.
Always keep warm products such as baby warming, insulation shoes, cashmere pants, etc. For special purposes, you need to prepare urine pads, etc.
Learn some ways to keep healthy, teach your parents, and order some magazines and newspapers for your parents.
often bring your lover or children home.
Help your parents wash their feet once a year, or beat their backs once, comb their hair once, and cut their nails once a year to reminisce about what their parents have done for us.
Know what parents like to eat, buy some nutritional supplements for them.
Solve the most basic problems of food, clothing, housing and transportation for parents. If conditions permit, provide enough pocket money for parents and help them choose one or two sets of new clothes every year to make them feel comfortable and decent.
Prepare a recorder or DV, listen to the past stories of your parents, remember today's smiles, and leave some warm memories for yourself.
If parents are sick, it is best to inquire from multiple sources and go to an authoritative hospital. Those who need financial support, disease conditioning, and children should take it to heart.
Important holidays are by their side, and important decisions should be made known to them.
Middle-aged and elderly people are relatively stingy, listen to their complaints and untie their parents' knots.
Don’t point fingers at your parents, don’t show your face to your parents, don’t contradict your parents, and don’t insult your parents.
Be harmonious with your spouse and have a happy family.
Buy appropriate insurance for parents.
fulfilled the unfulfilled dream of parents when they were young, even if they were taking a plane, looking at the sea, and climbing Great Wall .
Walk, chat and exercise with your parents. Or urge parents to exercise.
Take your parents to watch a movie, karaoke, take him to experience the high technology of the new era, and learn skills such as cooking, storage, financial management, New Year's customs and other skills from his parents.
supports parents' meaningful hobbies and respects their choices and decisions.
Listen to parents tell stories about their youth, listen to their parents singing, dancing, and be happy with them.
We will also grow old one day, and hope to pass on a happy family tradition from generation to generation.
