In 2021, the country has issued a new policy - advocating marriage and childbirth at the right age, and eugenic children, so that a couple can have three children.
At that time, I didn’t think about my third child, but reality slapped me in the face. Because Dabao Erbao stayed at home full-time for three years, he finally got the courage to find a kindergarten clerk in March 2022. During the interview, he said that he would not consider having a baby for the time being, but after a week of work, he found something was wrong, so he went to the hospital for a check-up. Sure enough, another cute little came. I hesitated for several days and stayed. Before, the two babies had and . I was a little afraid of sequelae after miscarriage, so I stayed.
The school was shocked to know my decision, after all, I was already both children. I also told me that one person is here to get pregnant and the other person is replaced every semester. There is to send a child to Guanyin and to take charge. Since I made this decision, I will go to work with pregnancy.
In the past few years of full-time work, there is no other social circle except for contacting children. Being disconnected from society, whether you can come out to adapt to society in the future is a vague concern for every full-time mother. Especially many mothers were working mothers before, and they didn’t know anything except professionalism. When they went to work, the times might have abandoned her. Not being able to get to know people outside and not having time to do their own things has become the biggest problem for full-time mothers.
So no matter what, I don't want to be full-time anymore.
The road to pregnancy is not easy. The previous two were vomiting in the previous few months, and they vomited whatever they had eaten, and they lost more than ten pounds. Unexpectedly, the Three Treasures also vomited, and they were a little better. They wanted to vomit at the meal time, but they vomited after eating. So I really lost a lot and I persisted.
As my stomach gradually grows bigger and I look pregnant for 4 months, my appetite will really improve. After a semester, I became familiar with the work. In addition to being busy with festivals and inspections, I was also relaxed.
So I insisted on going to work at the start of school in September, and the office recruited a clerk again. Unexpectedly, school started for a week because of the epidemic.
is currently 34 weeks pregnant, and he has a good appetite. He occasionally has numb legs and cramps when sleeping at night. Anyway, it's pretty good, and a new member will be added at the end of 10.
It is reported online that some families have a tuition fee of about 30,000 yuan per year. And this is just the tuition fee for the child, not including the daily food, clothing and expenses for the child at home. Some people also say that families with poor work benefits may not save enough money in a year to go to school, so in order to give their children a better life, parents save as much as possible and live a tight life.
So many young parents say they don’t want to have children because the pressure of having children is too great.
my country has opened up the three-child policy, and many young people born in the 1980s and 1990s are only children. As population aging becomes increasingly serious, the burden of having children is on them.
We are also under pressure for the third child, and ordinary families have decided, so we can only persist. I just wish every child good health and safety.
Where do you get the courage to have a third child? What do you think?
