A parent with cultural wisdom can keenly catch the signals of the child's destiny, thereby establishing scientific education and changing the child's destiny.
Yi Zhongtian established four cultural concepts for his daughter - "truth", "kindness", "health" and "happiness". The daughter consciously uses these eight words to shape herself, and she advances all the way to glory.
Without proper education, life remains dormant and is called an ignorant life. An experienced teacher can determine whether a child is ignorant by just glancing at a child's eyes. Wise parents can judge whether the child is awakened by observing a small behavior of the child.
Why is the teacher's education so ineffective and we watch our children fall into the quagmire of a sad fate? Because they only focus on knowledge learning and examinations, no matter how hard they try to manage and educate, they still have no effect, and in the end they do not know the root cause of the failure. The fundamental mission of
education is not to instill knowledge and practice skills, but to enlighten life and sow the seeds of love and faith for children, just like the education of Wei Shusheng .
How does education enlighten life? We must study the two major signs of ignorant life.
一 Protecting bad habits and coveting comfort
Except for children with excellent nature, life instincts are often negative, such as eating, drinking and having fun. Children whose behavior is controlled by instinct tend to eat, drink and have fun, but lack the curiosity to explore knowledge and their own lives.
Instinct governs behavior and in exchange for corresponding comfort, habits are formed. Habits are behavioral experience systems. Once developed, they become another force of instinct. Why are habits hard to break? Just because of greed for comfort. Children have been playing games since they were young, and games have become a habit, and their studies have been neglected.
Every bad habit bribes children with a kind of comfort, laziness bribes the comfort of doing nothing, weakness bribes the comfort of giving up, comfort corrodes the soul of the child, forms a shell of ignorance, the child's brain becomes useless, and high barriers are set for education.
When bad habits accumulate into character, such as laziness, cowardice, obedience, etc., a sad fate is almost certain. Laziness makes the eyes dull, cowardice makes the behavior wretched, and the ghost of fate follows closely.
Seemingly small bad habits are enough to ruin studies. Scrawled handwriting and carelessness are extremely fateful. As for serious bad habits such as not being able to read books, not being able to listen to lectures, and not being able to complete homework, it is a fate of failure.
Teacher’s education is extremely difficult to overcome bad habits. If you don’t show strong execution ability, your children’s future will be in trouble. To eliminate the bad habit of dozing off in class, we have to spend a lot of energy and come up with many ways, but the results are still not good. As long as there is a slight laxity in management, bad habits will immediately strike back.
We see parents scolding and even beating them every day, but the children are still immersed in comfort and unable to extricate themselves, because the parents have no courage and have allowed bad habits to dominate their children for a long time. How many parents lack executive power and education is ineffective.
Therefore, only enlightenment of life can free children from the prison of bad habits. Without changing the child's attitude towards life, without calling for the awakening of self-love, and without enlightenment of dignity, reforming bad habits is often laborious and ineffective.
Only if you love yourself can your eyes shine, your behavior can be full of energy, and learning can be sublimated into a struggle to change your destiny; only if you love others can your speech be filled with warmth, your expression can release happiness, and your dealings can be full of wisdom.
2 Blind Rebellion Teacher
Teacher’s education is to eliminate bad habits, and blind rebellion is to protect bad habits. Laziness corrodes children with the comfort of doing nothing, and weakness corrodes children with the comfort of giving up halfway. Children will protect their bad habits at all costs and rebel against their teachers.
The rebellious words and deeds are another vivid portrayal of ignorance. Rebellion closes the door to education and extinguishes the hope of awakening.
Laziness, cowardice, etc. become the name of the child and are marked on the face and behavior. The child is destined to become the victim of rebellion. The eyes covered with clouds emit a strange light, which does not express enthusiasm, but rebellion; the ignorant shouts do not express resistance, but express the pain of degradation.
Therefore, fighting against rebellious children not only fails to awaken life, but instead drives the children to degradation.Only by using the pain of fall to enlighten children to awaken can life be led to the light.
Where is the potential of life? When bad habits bribe children to be comfortable, they also give them pain. The comfort of laziness and idleness is accompanied by the pain of boredom, the pain of failure, the pain of hopelessness, etc.; the comfort of cowardly giving up is accompanied by the pain of failure, the pain of humiliation, etc.
However, ignorant lives often covet comfort but cannot fully experience pain, cannot interpret pain into awakening, and sink into comfort and cannot extricate themselves.
Education is to use the wisdom of compassion to act as the child's pain, which is more profound and clear than the child's, thus calling for the awakening of dignity and enlightenment of life. Only by heartache can the bad habits of Daxia be overturned. The truth of self-love can shine through the darkness like the sun, and life can move towards hope.
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