In the current era where is involved in , it is difficult for parents not to be anxious. They have heard many reasons, but when they see other people’s children struggling, they panic.
Haste makes waste, and premature development is not in line with the laws of life development
Human beings are different from animals. Animals are born with instinct to survive and develop. Lambs can run quickly after they are born, and after a while, they can eat grass to survive; while humans are actually born as "premature infants" and cannot survive without long-term and careful upbringing by adults.
There is a famous experiment in the field of psychology, namely the twin ladder experiment by psychologist Gesell. In the experiment, one of the twins did stair climbing training for ten minutes every day for six weeks starting from the 48th week of his birth. By the time he was 52 weeks old, he could skillfully climb 5 stairs. During this period, the other twin did not train. Instead, he started practicing climbing stairs until he was 53 weeks old. As a result, he was able to climb to the top of the stairs two weeks later.
From this point of view, premature training, like gradual training, can eventually achieve the ideal requirements, but it requires more time and greater effort. More importantly, what needs to be paid attention to by parents is that this kind of training and learning may have little effect and can easily frustrate children's self-confidence and make children feel tired of learning, which is not conducive to the sustainable development of their learning.
Better to be late than early: I would rather be a "chicken head" than a "phoenix tail"
Therefore, many experienced teachers in primary schools and kindergartens unanimously advocate that children under the age would rather go to school in the evening rather than early, otherwise, the children will have to eat It’s a big loss and a big sin.
In the past, a newspaper published an article written by a parent about "One more year of fun", which resonated with many parents. This parent encountered a problem: School has started, but the child is only a few days away from entering school. Should he reluctantly let his child go to first grade and become a "phoenix tail", or should he wait another year and become a "chicken head"?
Parents decisively decided to "let their children play for another year." In the end, it turned out that this decision was the right one. After a year of full intellectual development, the child has been a proud "chicken head" in the new first grade. The child's self-confidence is getting higher and higher, and he has always been an excellent student.
If you love your children, follow their growth patterns and let them do the right things at the right age. What parents have to do is accompany them silently and wait for the flowers to bloom.
