Use the power of play to build connections with people and make everything easier. It is said that it is easy to give birth to children but not easy to raise them. When we give our children what we think is the best, we may not know whether the children need it or not. Why are so

Use the power of games to build connections with people and make everything easier.

It is said that it is easy to give birth to children but not easy to raise them. When we give our children what we think is the best, we may not know whether the children need it or not. Need, why are some children willing to talk to strangers, but not willing to talk to their parents? We obviously love our children, and it is obviously for their own good, but what we don’t know is that many times we pretend to love our children. The banner of

is harming children, which is also a new challenge to Chinese parenting methods.

The book "Game Power" gives us the answer. Adults can integrate into children's world, regard themselves as children's playmates, and create connections through parent-child communication. Some difficult problems may be solved in this way. Like the book says, when you're with your kids, bring all your magic and wisdom and get down to the floor. Then we as parents often ignore our children’s feelings.

Playfulness - a parenting method based on playful play - can rebuild the bridge of affectionate connection between individuals. In fact, the energy and intimacy generated in games can relieve parents' stress.

A small example is enough to illustrate that we also need eyes that are good at discovery. The author took his 9-year-old daughter to an open-air dance and met a mother and son. The mother wanted to dance with everyone, while the son held his hands on his chest. Willing to jump. At this time, the mother became angry and began to scold, "You pulled me here, why are you backing out now?" These words made the boy even more disgusted, and he hugged his hands tighter, even his heels. Close together. I'm afraid most of us parents have been exposed to similar situations like this in reality. The author of

said, "Hey, he invented a new dance step, right?" and imitated the boy's state, which alleviated the embarrassment and made the boy relax. At this time, the child's mother also learned to behave like a child. A joke turned the tables. This can happen anytime and anywhere, turning enemies into friends with children, making the parent-child relationship more harmonious. Activating children's natural cooperation and courage through laughter.

It can be said that the power of play can help us build connections and cultivate children's self-confidence. Whether it is confrontational games or playing house, letting children make their own decisions, and laughing together. Whether it is to ease the atmosphere and put down their posture, if the child laughs for a while If you cry for a while, it means that the previous emotions have not been released mentally, etc. This book

can be said to describe the role of game power at different stages, periods, and occasions in great detail, but it has a lot of content and is a bit complicated.