We often say that we "love this, love that", but have we ever thought about "what is love?"
In the past week, I finally read a book about love - "What is Love 2.0". In this book, the author redefines love in nine ways.
1. Love is a desire
Yes, everyone wants to be seen, everyone desires love.
Just like fish cannot live without the sea, birds cannot live without the sky, and we cannot live without the air. The same is true for love, which can be said to be the most instinctive need of our body.
Just like a child does not have to stick to his mother, but the mother is everything to the child, but the child longs for the love and protection of the mother.
Just like many people will choose to fall in love, get married, and have children when they reach the right age. In fact, this is also our desire and pursuit of love.
And love is two-way and mutual. Therefore, we must learn to feel love, cherish love, and learn to live in the present.
2. Love is a connection
Love is produced in mutual interaction. Therefore, love is a connection.
I had my confinement period at a confinement center.
still remembers that the first night I entered the confinement center, I slept soundly all night. But the next day, I started learning to take care of my daughter.
Because, I struggled with my thoughts all night: Although I am still not used to the new identity of "mother". But now that I have been promoted to the mother of a certain child, I must love my daughter and fulfill my mother's responsibilities.
So, I gave up complaining about being tired, and instead cherished every minute and every second I spent with the little girl, and left many precious photos and videos.
Now that I think about it, it is the connection of love that helps our mother-daughter bond.
3. Love is a whole
all say "love is mutual". Therefore, love does not exist in isolation, but as a whole.
In fact, the most important thing about love is resonance at the same frequency, which is empathy .
And empathy is generated in the interactions between both parties. Therefore, communication is particularly important.
gives an example from my work.
I went to work early this Monday morning. I saw four large bags of bubble bags and at the door of the warehouse. I sent them to the work group to ask about the situation. Because no one had communicated this to me - four large bags of bubble wrap would be delivered that day.
I was indeed very angry at that time. But then he calmed down. However, the only difference between people is communication.
To be honest, people are like this. Trust is gained through communication, and love is generated through communication. Even if there is just one more sentence, everything will be different.
4. Love is a chain reaction
has an effect called " domino effect ". And love is the same, it's a chain reaction.
And when people behave in the same way, they can experience each other's true friendliness and understand each other, trust and love.
For example, if we are happy today, our colleagues and friends around us are also happy. But if we are worried today, the people around us will not have it easy either.
love is the same.
Therefore, if we love ourselves, our families, and our colleagues, they must also love us.
5. Love is a feeling
People have hearing, taste, smell, and touch, and love is a feeling.
Maybe life is too stressful now, and coupled with the repeated epidemics, we have lost the feeling of love and can no longer experience true happiness.
But in fact, if you think about it carefully, love is actually everywhere; and love is all around us.
For example, as soon as you get home, you can hear the laughter of your family members, which means that the home is full of love; when you arrive at the company, your colleagues can always get along happily, which means that the company is full of love.
Therefore, when you are in blessings, you must know blessings, and when you are in love, you must know love.
6. Love is a skill
Before, I only knew that "happiness is a skill." But in fact, love is also a skill.
First of all, all we have to do is love ourselves. After all, among the many roles we play, including daughter, wife, mother, and employee, we should be ourselves. Therefore, we must learn to read, grow throughout life, and continue to practice to become a better version of ourselves.
Secondly, all we have to do is love our families. To be honest, we tend to be gentle to strangers and speak harshly to our own family members. But the truth is, our families crave our love even more. So learn to be nice to your family.
In the end, what we want is to love work. Learn to do what you do and love what you do, rather than love what you do and do what you do. And whether we change jobs or not, no matter which position we are in, we should not dawdle, because life is your own and your growth is your own.
7. Love requires sincerity.
Love also requires sincerity.
Think about how many times we have said this to our children, "If you don't sleep again, your mother won't buy you sweets" and "If you don't do well in the exam, we won't go traveling."
Think about whether our love for our children is sincere?
In fact, children love their parents more than parents love their children. In fact, love in the true sense has zero threat and no exchange.
Therefore, love is sincere, real and sincere. But only when a person is rich in his heart can he give true love to others.
8. Love is a kind of fraternity
Art has no borders and borders, and neither does love.
Just like so far, I have not participated in any duty in the e-commerce department. But every time I pack the goods in advance for the holidays, I work hard.
Because we are all a collective, and for our team to get better and better, it doesn’t matter if we work harder.
Furthermore, whether it is family or work, no one does more or less, there is no fairness or unfairness, and there is no fussing over things.
Because the positions are different, the responsibilities are different, but the goal is the same - we are all striving for our family or company.
Actually, now that I think about it, is this considered fraternity?
9. Love is an experience
suddenly remembered a song, "The First Experience of Love". Yes, love is also an experience.
Actually, there are many benefits of love.
In fact, love can not only help us have a healthy body, but also nourish our souls and make us better.
In fact, everyone needs love. Because no one wants to grow up in hate.
In fact, love is like a guiding light, illuminating our way forward; happiness is like our divine assist, helping us to bloom a wonderful life.
Finally, "What is Love 2.0" redefines love in nine ways.
In the final analysis, the best love we have for our families is to work hard, live attentively, love ourselves well, and become a better version of ourselves.
